Wisdom about relationships, attachment, intimacy etc

[skydog]

So Im just thinking that I often prefer to change the way I think about things and gain wisdom which changes how much things affect me emotionally, rather than just continue walking in shit and suffer blindly in pain, I have done this for many things, but recently Id like to do this more for the topic of relationships.

 

So I was just sitting on the bach today trying to come up with good thoughts on this subject will probably name a painting and do a series on it.

 

so

 

I love without expectations

I know what I want exactly and thus dont get bothered by not getting things i didnt want or thought I should want.

I love without needing to understand the other persons actions

I know that I would do whatever the other person is doing if I was in their shoes and had lived there life

I am cut from the same cloth as (competition) etc

I love without expecting permanence

The word relationship to be changed to something else such as companionship or to consider myself more like an animal or different quantities of different animals

I love without needing the other person to understand me

I love without needing the other person to validate who it is I want to be

I love without needing the other person to share my path

 

 

some idealistic but balancing mantras...

 

 

 

 

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[BaguaKicksAss]

That is awesome Skydog .

 

Hey feel free to come join us on page 34 (!!) of that other thread .

[skydog]

That is awesome Skydog .

 

Hey feel free to come join us on page 23 (!!) of that other thraed .

 

thanks, which other thread.

 

and im really just looking to share plus get further contributions for this kind of thinking..

[BaguaKicksAss]

Actually tbh, you likely wouldn't enjoy it.. but I was hoping for some good contributions along these lines .

 

Hmm, the other person understanding me would be cool though... The rest, yes definitely. Though similar path (for me) is important since that is where most of my day goes.

[Unseen_Abilities]

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[Unseen_Abilities]

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Edited January 31, 2014 by Unseen_Abilities

[roger]

So Im just thinking that I often prefer to change the way I think about things and gain wisdom which changes how much things affect me emotionally, rather than just continue walking in shit and suffer blindly in pain, I have done this for many things, but recently Id like to do this more for the topic of relationships.

 

So I was just sitting on the bach today trying to come up with good thoughts on this subject will probably name a painting and do a series on it.

 

so

 

I love without expectations

I know what I want exactly and thus dont get bothered by not getting things i didnt want or thought I should want.

I love without needing to understand the other persons actions

I know that I would do whatever the other person is doing if I was in their shoes and had lived there life

I am cut from the same cloth as (competition) etc

I love without expecting permanence

The word relationship to be changed to something else such as companionship or to consider myself more like an animal or different quantities of different animals

I love without needing the other person to understand me

I love without needing the other person to validate who it is I want to be

I love without needing the other person to share my path

 

 

some idealistic but balancing mantras...

 

 

 

 

...

 

This is really amazing in my opinion, Skydog.

 

I could definitely stand to use some of this wisdom in my relationships and I intend on doing so.

 

Thanks for sharing it!

[Aetherous]

Excellent idea to be idealistic.