Yo there.

[sixpac]

Hi.

I've come to TaoBums because there seems to be a wealth of either knowledge or knowledgeable people to absorb here, along with a little bit of a support group when I am knee/neck deep in potentially murky esoteric waters.

I hope that is cool with all of you.

So if anyone reads this, hit me up!!

I really wanna have a good conversation and bone pick with someone preferably more experienced in semen retention than me.

I've been on and off practicing for about 2 years now. Sometimes I feel like I have skipped too far ahead WITHOUT the guidance of a teacher. Quite often I feel "thats cool, as of yet I don't need a teacher." Sometimes it can be hard to follow your intuition without any doubts, and so I'm throwing out all possible lassos to see if anything will catch.

All I have so far is people less experienced than me asking for my opinions on stuff!!!!! Which I'm happy to give lol but realistically I want some guidance myself. Not sure my opinions are really the best thing for someone to be listening to!!

 

So I think right now, if anyone has an answer, my questions would be:

 

Is it ok if after sustained periods of retention + circulation I can get quite violent nose bleeds?

 

Any techniques for releasing a bit of prostate pressure/fluid that should inevitably build up?

 

What to do when you just feel like watching some porn/seeing some titties? Go with the flow or exercise some discipline.. Is there ever a time when you are 'ready' for such practices?

 

Also, do the processes involved in Chia's various Enlightenments of Kan & Li help in almost releasing/calming and refining the energy? Is there any chance I could learn this by myself from books??

 

Thank you so much in advance.

 

J

[Chang]

Hello and welcome to the Tao Bums.

 

You will find no shortage of information on the forum regarding the cultivation of generative force and likewise no shortage of advice from those who practice such cultivation.

 

Before getting busy with posting please take the time to read the two posts pinned at the top of the Lobby and also take a look at the forum terms and rules http://thetaobums.com/topic/19575-forum-terms-rules/ This covers all that you need be aware of when getting started on the forum.

 

Good luck and best wishes,

 

Chang

[SonOfTheGods]

Hi.

I've come to TaoBums because there seems to be a wealth of either knowledge or knowledgeable people to absorb here, along with a little bit of a support group when I am knee/neck deep in potentially murky esoteric waters.

I hope that is cool with all of you.

So if anyone reads this, hit me up!!

I really wanna have a good conversation and bone pick with someone preferably more experienced in semen retention than me.

I've been on and off practicing for about 2 years now. Sometimes I feel like I have skipped too far ahead WITHOUT the guidance of a teacher. Quite often I feel "thats cool, as of yet I don't need a teacher." Sometimes it can be hard to follow your intuition without any doubts, and so I'm throwing out all possible lassos to see if anything will catch.

All I have so far is people less experienced than me asking for my opinions on stuff!!!!! Which I'm happy to give lol but realistically I want some guidance myself. Not sure my opinions are really the best thing for someone to be listening to!!

 

So I think right now, if anyone has an answer, my questions would be:

 

Is it ok if after sustained periods of retention + circulation I can get quite violent nose bleeds?

 

Any techniques for releasing a bit of prostate pressure/fluid that should inevitably build up?

 

What to do when you just feel like watching some porn/seeing some titties? Go with the flow or exercise some discipline.. Is there ever a time when you are 'ready' for such practices?

 

Also, do the processes involved in Chia's various Enlightenments of Kan & Li help in almost releasing/calming and refining the energy? Is there any chance I could learn this by myself from books??

 

Thank you so much in advance.

 

J

Most of those Topics can be found in the taobum archive, but I would use Google to find them.

 

I would recommend altering some of your questions, as there are ladies here, and it is a family oriented site,

Edited January 17, 2014 by SonOfTheGods

[Aetherous]

What to do when you just feel like watching some porn/seeing some titties? Go with the flow or exercise some discipline.. Is there ever a time when you are 'ready' for such practices?

 

IMO, the discipline should happen before you feel like it. When you feel like that, you've already lost discipline in keeping the mind from lust.

 

Past that point, sometimes discipline is good and it's worth trying, but don't drive yourself crazy, because full blown lust is not something that can be controlled in my opinion. It's like an avalanche...the innocent seeming thoughts and feelings of sexuality are like a loud noise in the mountains. Seemingly harmless. Then all of a sudden, snow begins shifting beneath...and before you know it, an unstoppable avalanche is coming down on you. Try as you might to stop the snow from wiping you out, but you're now destined to lose.

 

So don't make the loud noise in the mountains. Try not to be lustful, is my view of correct practice.

[RiverSnake]

If you do a search of the forum you will find plenty of threads on the topic.

 

My 2 cents, Peace