skydog Posted April 1, 2014 http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/ http://www.nofap.org/ The energy on here is conducive to certain goals, spending 5-10 minutes a day here will be beneficial for those with certain intentions, I aim to 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted April 1, 2014 The idea is not to spend so much time fighting the lust and urges with breathing techniques and repeating mantras like I have control and self discipline and willpower and focusing on the colour green or even one I thought of now 1,2,3 and jump maybe a little bit but have it so far neutralised and purified before one gets anywhere near to it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soaring crane Posted April 1, 2014 hahaha what'll the internet come up with next? I mean, the idea is really quite honorable and wholesome. But the title! lololol 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted April 1, 2014 I have one of the windows open on my computer all the time, I might be delusional but maybe it kinda purifies my computer space hahah actually Im sure thats not delusional 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted April 1, 2014 hahaha what'll the internet come up with next? I mean, the idea is really quite honorable and wholesome. But the title! lololol Hahah I know I was trying to choose a name for this thread I actually thought the word no fap/fapping was the least offensive/distasteful, but thats just me 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunchild Posted April 2, 2014 not using a computer unless it's for communication or research, and staying away from electronics in general works best for me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Captain Mar-Vell Posted April 2, 2014 ... Force is not the answer, mr skydog sir. Don't over do it, for God's sake man. Maybe you wanna lose a bit of weight. Always be gentle with yourself. You gonna hurt yerself one of these days. ... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted April 2, 2014 (edited) ... Force is not the answer, mr skydog sir. Don't over do it, for God's sake man. Maybe you wanna lose a bit of weight. Always be gentle with yourself. You gonna hurt yerself one of these days. ... Thanks, I appreciate your concern, but am not overdoing it... It may appear that way...but I think mostly it is an appearance Edited April 2, 2014 by skydog Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Captain Mar-Vell Posted April 2, 2014 ... I humbly bow before your own judgement sir. Let thine own self be thy leader. At the end of the day, there is something to be said for Brute Force Attack of Master Magus. ... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unseen_Abilities Posted April 2, 2014 (edited) My mind is the site I use to avoid fapping. Being mid-20'sish I don't go overboard with the retention stuff though...also I have a girlfriend now for the 1st time in a long time which I'm enjoying... Despite anything else I've (ever) said, I'd listen to Mar-vell here - Maybe it's better for young dudes to just ejaculate semi-regularly (if you're doing energy work/internal cultivation) than worry too much about retention. If you're doing energy work/cultivation then you'll already be more potent than other guys your age in the 1st place (I've come across 26-27 yr olds who are already using Viagra, hah, but it could be because of their substance intake, idk...) so I think ejaculation is important (maybe not crucial though, depending on circumstances) to keep a level head at your (our) age. Peace, skydog. Edited April 2, 2014 by Unseen_Abilities 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted April 2, 2014 (edited) EDIT: I wanted to clarify myself and reasons, but later I feel this is unconstructive and unneccessary. Edited April 2, 2014 by skydog 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted April 2, 2014 (edited) My mind is the site I use to avoid fapping. Being mid-20'sish I don't go overboard with the retention stuff though...also I have a girlfriend now for the 1st time in a long time which I'm enjoying... Despite anything else I've (ever) said, I'd listen to Mar-vell here - Maybe it's better for young dudes to just ejaculate semi-regularly (if you're doing energy work/internal cultivation) than worry too much about retention. If you're doing energy work/cultivation then you'll already be more potent than other guys your age in the 1st place (I've come across 26-27 yr olds who are already using Viagra, hah, but it could be because of their substance intake, idk...) so I think ejaculation is important (maybe not crucial though, depending on circumstances) to keep a level head at your (our) age. Peace, skydog. Thanks for your thoughts, they have validity The post I made is only for people who choose not to fap or want to a little less, maybe not for every body or at least right now. Nice on the GF, btw peace Edited April 2, 2014 by skydog 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cheshire Cat Posted April 2, 2014 You see hot chicks Keep the image in your mind And this is what you get ---- I can't think about something more demotivating... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted April 2, 2014 (edited) smile Edited April 2, 2014 by skydog Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GreytoWhite Posted April 2, 2014 I saw this guy being interviewed on the local news recently.http://www.feedtherightwolf.org/ 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soaring crane Posted April 2, 2014 I saw this guy being interviewed on the local news recently. http://www.feedtherightwolf.org/ this was worth the click: Cherokee tale of Two Wolves: One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside all people. He said, “My son, the battle is between two ‘wolves’ inside us all. “One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” “The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.” The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf wins?” The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.” 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unseen_Abilities Posted April 3, 2014 You see hot chicks Keep the image in your mind And this is what you get ---- I can't think about something more demotivating... Approached in this way, I completely agree. Honoring the body by releasing its energy in a respectful way is completely different to your Lollipop Girl/Seedy Man/Randy Marsh situation though. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Captain Mar-Vell Posted April 3, 2014 ... She's hot. ... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cheshire Cat Posted April 3, 2014 (edited) Approached in this way, I completely agree. Honoring the body by releasing its energy in a respectful way is completely different to your Lollipop Girl/Seedy Man/Randy Marsh situation though. Yes, you're right. But I think it's more about love than honour and respect :wub: ... She's hot. ... Edited April 3, 2014 by DAO rain TAO 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites