mike 134 Posted September 18, 2014 I went clubbing over the weekend and went pretty wild, dancing, grinding, making out with randoms. I couldn't get an erection though. No erection = girls don't let you grind them anymore, you can't escalate. This is actually the first time I really went all out clubbing since getting kundalini syndrome, and I can't get a damn erection for the first time ever. Usually at these places I'm sporting a boner as soon as I walk in. I thought dancing was supposed to agitate kundalini and increase sexuality ?? I wasn't drunk. What should I do I'm going out again soon and this needs to be fixed. Thanks. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aetherous Posted September 18, 2014 Of all of the problems in the world, this is literally at the bottom of the list of things for the universe to solve. 17 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mike 134 Posted September 18, 2014 lol I'm responsible for a lot of stuff these days both work and personal but this to me is more important than all of that. You know, I found that clubbing is the perfect activity to do during kundalini flare ups. If you can't sleep, feeling agitated, wired, just dance it away ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tibetan_Ice Posted September 18, 2014 Well I hate to suggest this to you because I believe that in your previous life you were one those breeds of mice that fuck themselves to death, but, have you ever heard of Tongkat Ali? http://youtu.be/w1ZtqpphI8E . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
woodcarver Posted September 18, 2014 Keep cultivating Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andrei Posted September 18, 2014 http://youtu.be/p87MHbSrS8k Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BaguaKicksAss Posted September 18, 2014 Were you drinking alcohol? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Anoesjka Posted September 18, 2014 What are you after, sex, or awakening? Make up your mind please. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dust Posted September 18, 2014 Well I hate to suggest this to you because I believe that in your previous life you were one those breeds of mice that fuck themselves to death. I'm glad I wasn't still sipping my tea when I read this. My computer prefers being dry.. No erection = girls don't let you grind them anymore, you can't escalate. If this is true, 5-10 years too late, but I now realise what I was doing wrong all those years. I honestly can't believe that a girl might have not danced with me because I wasn't grinding my erect penis into her leg... 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
C T Posted September 18, 2014 If this is true, 5-10 years too late, but I now realise what I was doing wrong all those years. I honestly can't believe that a girl might have not danced with me because I wasn't grinding my erect penis into her leg... Amazing how times have changed. Although once i did have a pleasant experience similar to this back in the late 70s with a very nice girl (she was slightly older than me, a mere teenager at that time). Not by design, more like responding adequately to the then present and very correct circumstance. Aside from having mutually agreeable personalities, she must have found that aspect of the meeting rather pleasing too cos we ended up dating for a bit after that chance grind. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joeblast Posted September 18, 2014 (edited) Edited September 18, 2014 by joeblast 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CloudHands Posted September 18, 2014 I'm glad I wasn't still sipping my tea when I read this. My computer prefers being dry.. If this is true, 5-10 years too late, but I now realise what I was doing wrong all those years. I honestly can't believe that a girl might have not danced with me because I wasn't grinding my erect penis into her leg... Laule, as I was surprised I asked my wife about that she said it would'nt have work for her. Not an undeniable truth ^^ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bax44 Posted September 18, 2014 Lol this dude has to be a troll. The once a month koon da lini update. Priceless. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Silent Answers Posted September 18, 2014 Lol this dude has to be a troll. The once a month koon da lini update. Priceless. There's been some crazy trolling on TTB lately. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mike 134 Posted September 18, 2014 ^^^ Damn some of you guys are mean. I'm actually dead serious though it may sound strange or funny. I'm taking all sorts of supplements and superfoods and whatnot. I'm on so many things right now I can't even keep track of what I'm taking. What I'm really looking for is some kind of quick yoga move or pose that can get me a quick boner when I need it. Well not all girls like it it depends. If you just walk behind somebody and start grinding her with an erection that's a huge turn off for her. But if she initiates first and you don't get hard she'll lose interest. I guess its insulting to her that you don't find her attractive enough. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted September 18, 2014 (edited) Well there's a whole new take on the term 'ballroom dancing'. Thanks for sharing Mike. Edited September 18, 2014 by GrandmasterP 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bax44 Posted September 18, 2014 ^^^ Damn some of you guys are mean. I'm actually dead serious though it may sound strange or funny. I'm taking all sorts of supplements and superfoods and whatnot. I'm on so many things right now I can't even keep track of what I'm taking. What I'm really looking for is some kind of quick yoga move or pose that can get me a quick boner when I need it. Well not all girls like it it depends. If you just walk behind somebody and start grinding her with an erection that's a huge turn off for her. But if she initiates first and you don't get hard she'll lose interest. I guess its insulting to her that you don't find her attractive enough. Not being mean at all. Ive had erectile problems due to illness that have cost me some potential relationships before. Im talking severe ED with a very good looking girl cuddling with me, so I kinda know where your coming from. My thing is if this was a one time thing and especially if it was late night/drinking involved I wouldnt worry too much about it. Just you seem to blame everything on "kundalini" you are perpetuating a perhaps irrational belief that this energy is causing you all sorts of problems. Maybe try telling yourself kundalini dont exist and see how you get on, because judging from your posts you are fixated and obsessed with it! anyway no harm intended and Im sure you will be fine in the ed department. If it starts occuring regularly in an intimate situation then you should start to consider it a potential issue, but not from grindin in a nightclub;) 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michael Sternbach Posted September 18, 2014 (edited) Mike, Here's a therapeutic advice: If you don't get an erection in a situation where you would normally have expected one, then it's important to find out what your body/mind is trying to tell you. Try to understand the message and act on it, rather than looking for a "switch" for getting an immediate hard-on. Edited September 18, 2014 by Michael Sternbach 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mike 134 Posted September 19, 2014 Yes ofc I'm totally fixated by it I never had issues before it. I wish I could control it better there are times when it flares up and it feels like somebody injected me with viagra and testosterone, I'm oogling at every attractive woman in sight, and if I can't get some action I'm glued to the computer looking at porn for hours. Unfortunately I can't really sleep during flare ups, and not all flare ups result in increased sexual desire sometimes I feel completely flat. I swear if I had total control over this I'd be a god. Wired, fast talking, fast thinking during the day, sex maniac at night, and sleep soundly when I'm done Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daeluin Posted September 19, 2014 Sometimes the best advice for all of us is to just slow down, leave desire on the doorstep and learn to eat time. After a while we start realizing we'd just been on a train 'bout to hurtle off a cliff into a bulging volcano, and are pretty thankful we decided to step off. Usually it is our bodies that tell us when this time is... like... maybe when things we'd been relying on stop delivering on our expectations. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mike 134 Posted September 19, 2014 One last thing I think my attitude toward this is unusual here but totally valid and healthy. Some people when these things happen to them will start to believe in the most strange and frankly absurd things. I'm a man of science, a materialist, and, despite the weirdest experiences, an atheist for life. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michael Sternbach Posted September 19, 2014 (edited) Mike, Your honesty is to be complimented. Your statements make it obvious: Somebody who is so fixated on the Yang aspects of life so much will sooner or later have to deal with the Yin side. That's not me who is telling you this; it's right what your penis is telling you. Edited September 19, 2014 by Michael Sternbach 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gendao Posted September 19, 2014 Just you seem to blame everything on "kundalini" you are perpetuating a perhaps irrational belief that this energy is causing you all sorts of problems. Maybe try telling yourself kundalini dont exist and see how you get on, because judging from your posts you are fixated and obsessed with it! anyway no harm intended and Im sure you will be fine in the ed department. Well, both Glenn Morris & JJ Semple alluded to unreliable performance after kundalini awakening. I don't know if that happens to everyone, or just some people due energetic rerouting or clearing out blocks there? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nickyro Posted September 25, 2014 Sorry to revive this thread. Mike how is your libido since this post: http://thetaobums.com/topic/24349-loss-of-lust-and-libido/?hl=libido Like you I struggle to balance my sexuality with all that spiritual practice, do you have any tips, thx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
