roger Posted March 2, 2015 The problem I had for many years was that I thought I had to "try" real hard to accept my Self. I made a huge problem out of it, where in truth, there needn't have been one. Â Finally I realized that the best way to "accept" my Self, Divine Nature, or whatever, was to stop TRYING to and to see no NEED to. Â Then it became super-easy because at that point I didn't have to do a damn thing, because my Self was ALREADY true. Â Try a non-acceptance! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soaring crane Posted March 2, 2015 I like "non-judgement", myself. But your experience sounds quite profound :-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
silent thunder Posted March 3, 2015 I have much empathy for your experience roger  In my world TRY stands for To Resist Yourself.  My operative intent now is release and simple being. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marblehead Posted March 3, 2015 He Roger. Nice view.  I use the word "try" often because it is the best word to use to express my intention.  I've not had much problem with accepting myself. It's just that I haven't liked many of the things I saw. I have tried to change those things. Hasn't always worked. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rara Posted March 3, 2015 I have much empathy for your experience roger  In my world TRY stands for To Resist Yourself.  My operative intent now is release and simple being. Nice.  Like what was described in the Tao of Pooh...Winnie never tried, he just was.  I have to say, this is a very tricky practice still for me. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bearded Dragon Posted March 4, 2015 Nice.  Like what was described in the Tao of Pooh...Winnie never tried, he just was.  I have to say, this is a very tricky practice still for me.  Indeed.  You can layer it a bit. You can be while trying, and if that happens sometimes the trying layer falls away and you can do whatever you're doing without trying. I sometimes forget that anything goes, then I realise that I can't do anything other than be, whether I realise I'm being or not. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites