rjb100 Posted October 8, 2007 Hello all I'm new here. Discovered Taoism several months ago when having erection problems. Married for over 40 years in a loving sexual relationship I was, with hindsight, suffering from performance anxiety. My wife was very supportive and understanding during this period. I'm now learning the Eastern way with unbelievable[to me] results. The approach is so different from the Western way. All the anxiety has gone and the outlook is very positive. Mantak Chia and Daniel Ried are the two authors on the reading list at the moment and I've found tham both highly enlightening and am gently encouraging/coaxing my wife to discover other aspects of her sexuality that will guide her towards deeper and more satisfying physical and spiritual experiences in our life together. I feel that through the Tao we can become as one and take our relationship to a higher plane. Â Peace and kind regards to everyone Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cameron Posted October 8, 2007 Just make sure not to bring up energy without opening you channels first. Â In the Tao system I ams tudying now(Kunlun/Sifu Max)you learn a simple practice that opens your channels. IMHO this practice is superior to MCO. I would also say you should add emptiness mediation with it. It's basically like you want to have a nice, big open,empty cup before you try to "pour water" into it. Â Good Luck. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yoda Posted October 8, 2007 rjb, Â Welcome to taobums! I hope you find it to be a great resource. Â Yours, Yoda Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rjb100 Posted October 8, 2007 Thanks for the welcome Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nightwatchdog Posted October 10, 2007 Welcome rbj 100! I'm new here myself. I hope you enjoy yourself here, and find good information. Â Bodhi Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
