How we have all been forced into sexual slavery

[HoldorFold]

As for porn.. it's been looked into that looking at Porn is an addiction and alters the brains pathways and dopamine receptors as strongly as cocaine. Ita giving many young men erectile disfunction and ruining their views of the world.

 

And yet porn is so widely accepted. Our culture just sees it as a normal thing that goes along with being a healthy sexual person. It's ridiculous.alot of porn involves abuse rape and sex trafficking.

 

It should be banned in our country and just watch what happens to the men. Some may get angrier but many will transform their ways.

 

Yes porn certainly is addictive, especially for young people who's brain's reward circuitry become hardwired based on the vast array of stimulation. 

 

I'd be careful on equating porn with sex trafficking and rape though. In the west at least, porn actresses are often paid 10 times more than their disposable male counterparts and many male actors are actually expected to work for free. And overwhelmingly the addicts are men and young boys. But banning porn is not the answer, especially not under leftist rhetoric which pushes the 'predatory-male' narrative.

 

A solution might include better education in schools on the effects of porn. At the moment it's mostly geared around making sure boys understand not to push porn behaviors on girls, but I think they should include more education on its addictive and escalation potential and how it drains the life-force (good luck with that) and how it makes them less effectual in the world.

 

Having kids addicted to something at such an early age is pretty messed up when you actually think about it. If 90% of 13 year old boys were addicted to heroin then we might pay more attention. To deal with something like this we need a societal upgrade, like being able to teach kids mindfulness practices and how to bring consciousness into their behaviors. Not going to happen anytime soon, but one can hope.

[Michael Sternbach]

Good points... how would one figure out if they are suppressing it? If one chose to be celibate are they suppressing sexuality if they are also transmuting that energy into positive things

 

It is possible to sublimate sexual energy to creative ends. Usually, a degree of suppression is present nevertheless, however.

[Nungali]

 I ran into Rhea in town yesterday ... and  ... fer fucks sake  ... she was wearing these ....   

 

 

I wish she would force me into sexual slavery !     

[Taoway]

Yes porn certainly is addictive, especially for young people who's brain's reward circuitry become hardwired based on the vast array of stimulation.

 

I'd be careful on equating porn with sex trafficking and rape though. In the west at least, porn actresses are often paid 10 times more than their disposable male counterparts and many male actors are actually expected to work for free. And overwhelmingly the addicts are men and young boys. But banning porn is not the answer, especially not under leftist rhetoric which pushes the 'predatory-male' narrative.

 

A solution might include better education in schools on the effects of porn. At the moment it's mostly geared around making sure boys understand not to push porn behaviors on girls, but I think they should include more education on its addictive and escalation potential and how it drains the life-force (good luck with that) and how it makes them less effectual in the world.

 

Having kids addicted to something at such an early age is pretty messed up when you actually think about it. If 90% of 13 year old boys were addicted to heroin then we might pay more attention. To deal with something like this we need a societal upgrade, like being able to teach kids mindfulness practices and how to bring consciousness into their behaviors. Not going to happen anytime soon, but one can hope.

 

 

I'm sorry I meant that there is pornagrapjy that involved sec trafficking. And yes some get payed well but it's the young 18-21 year old actors who often are treated terribly. After they say yes to the shoot aND money they have little say. They often get hurt vaginally and don't have much of a voice during because all the producers care about is getting it made. And often they spend that money they made on medical bills.

[Michael Sternbach]

I'm sorry I meant that there is pornagrapjy that involved sec trafficking. And yes some get payed well but it's the young 18-21 year old actors who often are treated terribly. After they say yes to the shoot aND money they have little say. They often get hurt vaginally and don't have much of a voice during because all the producers care about is getting it made. And often they spend that money they made on medical bills.

 

A lot of the porn that people are getting for free on the Internet is actually made by amateurs - and they don't look like they are suffering!

[Taoway]

A lot of the porn that people are getting for free on the Internet is actually made by amateurs - and they don't look like they are suffering!

It's not a peachy on the internet. And with the Internet you can find a lot illegal things.

 

But I'm going to stop talking about that porn makes me terribly uncomfortable.

[liminal_luke]

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Edited May 1, 2016 by liminal_luke

[Marblehead]

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Well said.

[Taoway]

Why did you delete your respond liminal... it made sense

[Taoway]

I'm also honest and open to talk about that personally. I did suppress things a lot and do still to some extent because I am choosing to be celibate.

 

But I also am doing what you say in choosing which path to go down and choosing what to do with what I know. 3 years ago I was very unsure about things emotionally with my sexuality because I was very much so influenced by others. Then I had a relationship broke up and saw that what I was itching for wasn't entirely all peachy and perfect.

 

I won't spend my time and energy feeling porn is bad liminal . Instead I will use that energy for what I feel is good for people. What makes them feel good.

[liminal_luke]

Thanks Bodhidhara.  Glad to hear the post made sense to you.  I believed in what I said but didn´t feel quite right about the post so I deleted it.  If you got something out of it that´s the main thing.  

 

Liminal

[Marblehead]

Well, when I was younger I never supressed my sexual desires.  But then, I was never into porn - I opted for the real thing.  Doesn't seem to have shortened my life span any.

[Taoway]

Well, when I was younger I never supressed my sexual desires. But then, I was never into porn - I opted for the real thing. Doesn't seem to have shortened my life span any.

To me sup pressing would mean someone who is experiencing a libido and urges but is not channeling it or doesn't know how to channel it into other things.

 

 

We have to acknowledge that some people in history naturally practiced celibacy and channeling that energy came naturally. Nikola tesla being one

[vtrader125]

I think there is a difference between having sex to get the next dopamine rush for the sack of it and pure sexual extasy bliss with the right person at the right time.

The later being rare.

[Marblehead]

To me sup pressing would mean someone who is experiencing a libido and urges but is not channeling it or doesn't know how to channel it into other things.

Yes, I know, I simplified the concept.  But then, I never experienced questions about my sexuality. 

 

We have to acknowledge that some people in history naturally practiced celibacy and channeling that energy came naturally. Nikola tesla being one

But Nikola died a broken man.  Maybe if he had a woman watching out for his well-being he would have been much happier during his later years.

 

Sorry.  But I felt that needed to be said.

 

Yes, many opt for celibacy.  Their choice.  I just don't see where resisting/suppressing a natural impulse/instinct is healthy.

[Marblehead]

I think there is a difference between having sex to get the next dopamine rush for the sack of it and pure sexual extasy bliss with the right person at the right time.

The later being rare.

And that is why one should jump at every opportunity.  Who knows?  Maybe the next one will be the one that takes you to la-la land.

[Taoway]

I think there is a difference between having sex to get the next dopamine rush for the sack of it and pure sexual extasy bliss with the right person at the right time.

The later being rare.

Yeah good point. The reason I am celibate right now is because I believe the latter to be so rare. So I am open to that but am going to be very careful with deciding who is right.

 

I have found many women have a dependency on a man's ejaculate. Almost the same as how men feel pressured to make a girl orgasm.

 

When you take those out of the equation deeper levels can be found.

[Taoway]

And that is why one should jump at every opportunity. Who knows? Maybe the next one will be the one that takes you to la-la land.

I don't agree. It has been said here that certain people and experiences can do more harm then good. Like a purely surfaced based sexual experience leaves many men drained and depressed.

 

Imo it's important for me st least to be very trusting and open with the person. And to be in a. Good emotional state along with the person. But I'm a different person. Some need sex more then others. For me it has become something I don't desire too much.

[Taoway]

And that is why one should jump at every opportunity. Who knows? Maybe the next one will be the one that takes you to la-la land.

I don't agree. It has been said here that certain people and experiences can do more harm then good. Like a purely surfaced based sexual experience leaves many men drained and depressed.

 

Imo it's important for me st least to be very trusting and open with the person. And to be in a. Good emotional state along with the person. But I'm a different person. Some need sex more then others. For me it has become something I don't desire too much.

[Marblehead]

Wow!  You didn't agree twice.  Your point has been made.  But then,

 

Different strokes for different folks.

[Taoway]

Wow! You didn't agree twice. Your point has been made. But then,

 

Different strokes for different folks.

I'm sorry I didn't mean to be a pest

[Junko]

How about'How we have all been forced into hormone slavery'.

Edited May 2, 2016 by Junko

[Marblehead]

I'm sorry I didn't mean to be a pest

You weren't being a pest.  You were presenting your perspective just as I did.  You and I have different views of this concept, that's all.

[Marblehead]

How about'How we have all been forced into hormone slavery'.

 

Well, that used to be pure nature although recently I have heard some strange things about additives food producers are putting into our food.  That likely has something to do with this subject of discussion.

[Oneironaut]

Get as old as I am and you won't even care about it any more.

That's depressing. I tried to fight it (my constant need for sex) and go full monk but I just couldn't do it. I went into a depressed and unmotivated state until the promise of sex showed up and it lit a fire inside me. I need sex in my life and typically it's all I think about. I wish I could find one of those elusive nymphpmaniacs. The only place I ever hear of such women are in porn or on the Internet so I'm beginning to question it's existence.

 

I find that many women would put on the act of being a nympho but once the relationship gets more comfortable the frequency of sex takes a nose dive. The sexual slavery comes through being manipulated through your need for sex.

Edited May 2, 2016 by Oneironaut