Taoway Posted May 2, 2016 (edited) I feel as though when we sort out our deep unconscious longing to feel whole and discover more consciously what really makes us feel a consistency of wholesomeness our impulse for pleasure and sex becomes controllable. Â I went through that as well oneionaut. But then I discovered my intense desire for sex was not just a innocent desire of a biological urge. But it was tied to unhealthy unconscious patterns. When I am sorting those out I no longer feel the impulse in seeking out sex. Â At this point cultivation is clear to be more beneficial for me. I am open to the day when I meet a partner who also is aware of these things but why torture our selves in the mean time with endless longing? Edited May 2, 2016 by bodhidharma 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thelerner Posted May 2, 2016 How about'How we have all been forced into hormone slavery'. yup, by nature, herself. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
liminal_luke Posted May 2, 2016 (edited) I feel as though when we sort out our deep unconscious longing to feel whole and discover more consciously what really makes us feel a consistency of wholesomeness our impulse for pleasure and sex becomes controllable. Â Â Ever wonder about the popularity of erotic vampire stories? Â For me blood sucking is a metaphor for the kind of sex people look for when they feel cut off from their own essential wholeness; sex can be an attempt to complete oneself through erotically importing inner qualities perceived (mistakenly) as missing in oneself. Â Part of erotic maturity is finding those qualities in ourselves so that we can couple sexually with another without needing to steal any of their spiritual essence and vitality. Edited May 2, 2016 by liminal_luke 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marblehead Posted May 2, 2016 I wish I could find one of those elusive nymphpmaniacs. The only place I ever hear of such women are in porn or on the Internet so I'm beginning to question it's existence. They do exist. Really. I had one encounter. Sad for me though is that she sang gospel music while having sex and I just could deal with that. (That's a true story.) 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
liminal_luke Posted May 2, 2016 (edited) They do exist. Really. I had one encounter. Sad for me though is that she sang gospel music while having sex and I just could deal with that. (That's a true story.)  In general, Marblehead, we have different tastes when it comes to these things.  I´m with you here though: if there is one thing I can´t stand in a sexual partner it´s gospel singing. Edited May 2, 2016 by liminal_luke 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Songtsan Posted May 12, 2016 Well, that used to be pure nature although recently I have heard some strange things about additives food producers are putting into our food. That likely has something to do with this subject of discussion.  Yeah, supposedly the powers that be are trying to get us to become sex addicted, because this will also make us more sheepalized. And then the hormone like substances such as BPA, atrazine, and stuff in milk, etc. are supposed to mess with our male/female balance and again make us more submissive. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
