Mal Posted January 12, 2008 Bump. I'm finding that while I might be able to repress my sexuality through sheer willpower, I doubt that path would be particularly healthy. Actual non-attachment to sex is currently beyond me, I don't want to not want it Anyone feel like sponsoring my so I can lock myself in a brothel like Liu Ch'and-sheng till the desire burns itself out Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mantis Posted January 12, 2008 haha, my friend, celibacy never gets easier. i am on my 43rd day and still thoughts of sexual activity arise, just don't listen to them there is one thing we must remember, we are unperfect, we are unbalanced, and in order to become perfect and balanced you must sacrifice. looking for a path that matches what you like is a terrible error, if you where right why aren't you enlightened? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheTantricMongoose Posted February 12, 2008 Perhaps he'd be willing to share on this forum. I'd love to read his point of view. This is Sasha, Nityama's assistant... and I also run his website. www.nityama.com/blog We've finally joined the site... If you have any questions in regards to Nityama's work, feel free to ask. Thanks. Until soon. Sasha Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freesun Posted February 16, 2008 (edited) edit: back to the drawing board for me. Edited February 16, 2008 by freesun Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mantis Posted February 16, 2008 aroused and unaroused would be the equivalent of fire / water; in time, they both get the job done. which to choose? well that depends on you because even in the water you can drown. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mal Posted July 8, 2008 During the 3 months of celibacy required in Kunlun; is all sexual stimulation of any kind meant to be avoided? Sorry but I need to be clear on this before I start, my girlfriend is not making this easy. Evil Girlfriend Max does give a method for retention in Pillars of Bliss, but that opens another can of worms, check out http://www.alchemicaltaoism.com/ BEFORE you decide to give retention a go The reason I bumped this thread I know a few people are doing K2 (kunlun level 2) Did anyone here have any luck with the 100 days of retention? I did not, 2 weeks is my maximum, once a week is o.k. The 100 days is not that big a deal for me currently but I'm not practicing K1 daily so I'm not a great example. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gendao Posted July 11, 2008 I totally second getting a bisexual girlfriend. I've had so many threesomes (foursomes fivesomes) in my life with my girlfriend and additional beautiful womenWell f*** Barry Long with a fire hydrant...tell us YOUR secrets, Sean! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yoda Posted July 11, 2008 Well f*** Barry Long with a fire hydrant...tell us YOUR secrets, Sean! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sahaj Nath Posted July 11, 2008 Sean, will you be my Master? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yoda Posted July 11, 2008 I've asked... he only accepts female bisexual disciples... he's very adamant about his "no dudes" policy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
findley Posted July 11, 2008 Did I read correctly that 'fire' is aroused sexual energy during solo-cultivation; 'water' unaroused sexual energy during cultivation? I am not sure if I have noticed much of a difference. I fantasize sometimes, (listen to porn, [can't watch it]) and sometimes I just do it without 'arousal'. I haven't noticed a difference in the quality of the energy being cultivated, either way. What is 'it' that you bring down through the crown when you shoot sexual energy up through it, into the cosmos? ('sexing' the cosmos?) I can feel a difference in quality in that... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rolf Posted July 12, 2008 lol i tried to read through so i took maybe 15 hours ( a little exaggerated.)) anyway im in.first day wee ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nickolay Posted November 13, 2008 (edited) Im trying to just go as long as possible, on day 10. EDIT: Im pretty unfamiliar with Kunlun and how the 100 days of celibacy relates. I looked on their website but found nothing relating to retention, can anyone elaborate/post a link to more info? Edited November 13, 2008 by Nickolay Share this post Link to post Share on other sites