Victims of Porn Industry.

[amoyaan]

On a more serious note, I kinda think of all the problems in the world, masturbation and porn and its associated 'evils' are probably not high on the list.

 

I do however know that it can be an issue for people in terms of addiction and compulsive behaviour. It can interfere with relationships. This is symptomatic or deeper issues that need to be addressed. I sometimes think in our culture we lack a sense of aliveness. We're totally out of touch with nature and our own nature. We live largely artificial lives. Maybe the 'hit' of a burst of instant sexuality activates some hidden primal aliveness. Of course this can be addressed in terms of qi, and the underlying psychological and maybe physiological needs that might need looking into.

 

Otherwise it's just the free flow of energy expressing itself as it's designed to.

Edited November 18, 2016 by amoyaan

[redcairo]

If you search youtube for TED and pxrn, you will find numerous lectures from various folks on research done related to pxrn's addictive qualities on the internet. To a lesser degree this goes for other things -- shopping online is a little like gambling -- this click, fresh-novel stimulus cycle can entrain the brain until it becomes a vampiric loop, draining the person so badly it messes up their life much like a decent drug addiction will. Because it IS a drug addiction of course. Just endogenous drugs.

 

Realistically, although I don't think of myself as a victim of things so I tend to knee-jerk avoid that perspective for much of anything, still, there is a great deal of mercenary marketing, designed to exploit many known elements of the nervous system and culture, in order to get one's focus into that, and bring it back. Much like doritos, taco bell and oreos have more chemistry research than even the best hard drug, affecting the brain not just at the time but more importantly, in a "just as you go away you suddenly want more" sort of way. Foods are designer drugs now (or perhaps I should say, ingestible entertainment as food, real food, is mostly something else). Well in the same way I think in today's world, a lot of visual and audiovisuals are also designer drugs -- relying on predictable nervous system responses to create endogenous drugs inside the person, which they will react to, bringing their attention in closer.

 

Advertising is like Casteneda's comments about dream 'scouts' that get your attention and in doing so lead you into other frequency ranges (worlds). Much of this stuff amounts to that. And like drugs, food, or the alcohol mentioned above, if a person gets sucked into that, it does them genuine harm.

 

Of course, it's a lot easier to suck people in when the human is already geared to need and want sex -- just like some but not all of us are geared to want sugar, and certain elements in health and nutrition and emotion will intensify that.

 

My sex drive has been in serious park for some time for health reasons, with rare exceptions, but prior to that (and I assume again at some point now that I'm sorta fixed) I did a lot of experimenting with masturbation. If done right, if you can hold the attention just as it is nearing climax, just before you start the end-run cycle, if you switch your attention to whatever it is you had wanted to give that energy to, and then give it as a gift, it works amazingly well. By which I mean, you know it works because the energy disappears. One instant you're all oh! oh! like a pxrn star and the next it's TOTALLY GONE like you could have been doing a spreadsheet or writing code. It's not like you come down, it's like it's utterly gone like it never existed at all. You can direct it to some part of your body. I have sometimes directed it to my Aeons but usually it's just directed up the spine to all the chakras instead of 'vented out.'

 

I find that if I'm working on being close to a given Aeon (aspect of self, sort of...), archetype or anything else, that if I do the process with them in mind as imagination but make a very big point to NOT finish -- to simply pull the energy up into my solar plexus instead, and let it go -- then like, in the evening of that day, if I sit down to meditate with that identity/energy, my rapport tends to be very powerful.

 

Someday I will find the guy I've been having dreams and visions about for years, and get to experiment with all the things I never got to do earlier in life LOL. I hope. Meanwhile it's just "quality time with myself" as my best friend (a man) and I refer to it. At this point, after years of trying to do something useful with the energy, I actually feel guilty if I don't. Like I have kind of wasted something important for a moment of more selfish intensity.

 

RC

[Shad282]

 

My sex drive has been in serious park for some time for health reasons, with rare exceptions, but prior to that (and I assume again at some point now that I'm sorta fixed) I did a lot of experimenting with masturbation. If done right, if you can hold the attention just as it is nearing climax, just before you start the end-run cycle, if you switch your attention to whatever it is you had wanted to give that energy to, and then give it as a gift, it works amazingly well. By which I mean, you know it works because the energy disappears. One instant you're all oh! oh! like a pxrn star and the next it's TOTALLY GONE like you could have been doing a spreadsheet or writing code. It's not like you come down, it's like it's utterly gone like it never existed at all. You can direct it to some part of your body. I have sometimes directed it to my Aeons but usually it's just directed up the spine to all the chakras instead of 'vented out.'

 

I find that if I'm working on being close to a given Aeon (aspect of self, sort of...), archetype or anything else, that if I do the process with them in mind as imagination but make a very big point to NOT finish -- to simply pull the energy up into my solar plexus instead, and let it go -- then like, in the evening of that day, if I sit down to meditate with that identity/energy, my rapport tends to be very powerful.

 

Someday I will find the guy I've been having dreams and visions about for years, and get to experiment with all the things I never got to do earlier in life LOL. I hope. Meanwhile it's just "quality time with myself" as my best friend (a man) and I refer to it. At this point, after years of trying to do something useful with the energy, I actually feel guilty if I don't. Like I have kind of wasted something important for a moment of more selfish intensity.

 

RC

i have been trying the technique you described up there and yeah i was able to reach orgasm but not ejaculate and so able to orgasm 10 times and more ... even tho i tried to direct the energy but didn't feel anything serious going on, dunno if my sensitivity is low.

but i did notice that it is quiet addictive since you can orgasm many times and quiet develop addiction to dopamine secretion in the mind after doing that., since it relaxes thoughts and help you escape stuff... also i felt my heart really tired and exhausted if i masturbate with or without ejaculating and fogginess in the mind is experienced, so not sure if i m doing something wrong..

 

now i m stopping masturbation been a week or more... but anger is arising and such not sure it is the right way... since i m forcing myself to stop... so i m trying to find the deep reason why i m seeking that release to heal it rather than dealing with the symptom.

 

Thank you!

[Silent Answers]

It's not necessarily porn, it's the internet and our spoiled/saturated culture in general.