Marblehead Posted August 13, 2017 2 hours ago, Limahong said: Hi Marblehead, You are blessed - albeit an atheist. You deserve your moments. - LimA Yes, blessed too to be an Atheist. My thought was more at being an 18 wheeler owner/operator and contract myself out to whoever had something that needed to go where I wanted to go. Yes, I am at peace with the choices I have made over the last thirty years. Well, with most of them. I've messed up some. Still do. I gave up on trying to be perfect. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 13, 2017 (edited) 29 minutes ago, Marblehead said: Yes, blessed too to be an Atheist. Hi Marblehead, Nice to note that when it comes to blessings, you have taken a middle path. You used the word 'too'. 29 minutes ago, Marblehead said: Where I wanted to go. What kind of service provider were you trying to be? One kind - the wrong kind. I definitely would not engage you. Dream on. 29 minutes ago, Marblehead said: Yes, I am at peace May the forces be with you always. 29 minutes ago, Marblehead said: I've messed up some. Still do. But of course. I know. 29 minutes ago, Marblehead said: I gave up on trying to be perfect. Good for you. Perfect = no fun. - LimA Edited August 13, 2017 by Limahong Enhancement of sentence. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 13, 2017 On 8/12/2017 at 3:22 AM, nohbody said: It is my intent to learn from others and find what else works so that I may offer some relief to those who continue to suffer. Hi nohbody, Henceforth, I believe you will not suffer as before. Why? Because - "I may offer some relief to those who continue to suffer". Proud to call you friend. On 8/12/2017 at 3:22 AM, nohbody said: Everyone is different I don't want to hold up any technique as a panacea. Very wise. There is no one size that fits all. - LimA 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nohbody Posted August 13, 2017 Thanks Lima, back at ya Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 13, 2017 8 minutes ago, nohbody said: back at ya Hi nohbody, Back at ya too. Will call it a day now. A long day Good night. - LimA 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 13, 2017 6 hours ago, nohbody said: Four hours ago TDB said - "nohbody is following you" Good morning nohbody, Got the above message from TDB. Whatever it is - thank you. Have you ever thought that you might have arrived at TDB unwittingly for a reason? The reason - to help others. Help others? Well for a start through simple and sincere conversations. Why you as "nohbody"? Because you have suffered and emerged a better man. Everything happens for a reason. - LimA 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nohbody Posted August 13, 2017 (edited) Lima, I just go with the Tao. If it has a purpose it's beyond me. I'm very gratified by your words. Thank you. Edited August 13, 2017 by nohbody its it's tis sit Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 13, 2017 7 hours ago, nohbody said: back at ya You are nohbody and not "nobody's child": Good day. - LimA Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 13, 2017 28 minutes ago, nohbody said: If it has a purpose it's beyond me. Hi nohbody, I beg to differ. The purpose is within you. Don't run away from yourself. - LimA 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 16, 2017 On 8/12/2017 at 3:22 AM, nohbody said: I'm an American who was born and raised abroad in various military bases Hi nohbody, Do have good memories of the "various military bases" abroad? If yes, why? If no, why? Think - if your domains of growing up were non-military, would you be diffferent person today? - LimA 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 16, 2017 (edited) 6 hours ago, Limahong said: Do have good memories of ... Hi nohbody, It's not my intention to bring back to you any pain. If I have unintentionally make a blunder, my apology. - LimA Edited August 16, 2017 by Limahong Correct typo error. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 16, 2017 (edited) 1 hour ago, Limahong said: It's not my intention to bring back to you any pain Hi nohbody, It's my sincerest wish that you find closure to whatever - if you have not already done so. From what I have read on this thread, you have blessings coming your way. It may be just in the next.moment. Please be ready to receive. - LimA Edited August 16, 2017 by Limahong Correct typo error. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 16, 2017 12 minutes ago, Limahong said: Blessings? Hi nohbody, Yes. When your mind is clear, peace and purpose descend upon you. - LimA 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nohbody Posted August 16, 2017 Hey Lima, I'm thankful for the broad view of people and culture that living abroad has provided. There were trade- offs, and living on fenced compounds surrounded by uniformed military people was not a fun way to live (and I see that "military mindset" taking root today in sinister ways across the land of the free...). I'd rather keep life details to myself. I know you don't mean offense. So what about your life? 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 16, 2017 (edited) 3 hours ago, nohbody said: I'm thankful for the broad view of people and culture that living abroad has provided. Hi nohbody, I woke up in search of cookies/milk and I saw your posting. Thank you. Apparently your living abroad had provided you with healthy mindset. Great. 3 hours ago, nohbody said: There were trade-offs. To me life is about trade-offs. Buddhism and Taoism have helped me to stay balanced thus: (a) Buddhism - impermanence, dettachment, middle path, ... (b) Taoism - dichotomies, dynamic balances, wuwei, ... It is important that I don't trade myself off. 3 hours ago, nohbody said: Living on fenced compounds surrounded by uniformed military people was not a fun way to live Sure. But living with a certain "purpose"? 3 hours ago, nohbody said: I see that "military mindset" taking root today in sinister ways across the land of the free... ... and across the world of the "freed" and "to be freed"? 3 hours ago, nohbody said: I'd rather keep life details to myself. Highly respected. 3 hours ago, nohbody said: So what about your life? My life had a wrong start - (a) a colonised kid (b) a badly scarred 8-year old ~ a year of damaging bullying by a teacher for my high IQ. Luckily I was borne into a family full of love. My life had its up's and down's - impetus for spiritual search and growth. Where am I today? Reborn in many ways - still searching, learning, knowing, "don't want to know", .. How am I at this very moment? Great - conversing with a fellow life traveller thus: (i) he a nohbody and (ii) I a nobody. Now back to sleep Good night. - LimA Edited August 16, 2017 by Limahong Enhancement of sentence. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 16, 2017 3 hours ago, nohbody said: The land of the free Hi nohbody, Like to share this before I sleep: - LimA 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 17, 2017 On 8/12/2017 at 3:22 AM, nohbody said: I would appreciate any suggestions and advice. Hi nohbody. The above qoute is from your introduction. At this juncture, it is clear that I can say this openly: "Back at ya". - LimA 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nohbody Posted August 18, 2017 Lima, I'm flattered. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 18, 2017 10 hours ago, nohbody said: I'm ... Hi nohbody. You are now spreading your wings like a butterfly? - LimA Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nohbody Posted August 18, 2017 My wings are made of imagination and fire. How about yours, Lima? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 18, 2017 5 minutes ago, nohbody said: My wings are made of imagination and fire. How about yours, Lima? Made of nothing, nohbody. So I am now just a nobody - LimA Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nohbody Posted August 18, 2017 "Nobody knows shit, nobody lives anywhere. Hello dust!” -Ikkyu Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 18, 2017 6 minutes ago, nohbody said: Nobody lives anywhere. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nohbody Posted August 18, 2017 You're a better nobody than me Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Limahong Posted August 18, 2017 20 minutes ago, nohbody said: You're a better nobody than me No no no ... Lucky you are nohbody. - LimA 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites