Marblehead Posted July 19, 2018 14 hours ago, Earl Grey said: Calling people out (e.g. your words of demanding I explain "incredibly misogynistic bs") is a great way to not get what you want whether it's change or dialogue. Calling people in is the way to go if you really want dialogue. Good point. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marblehead Posted July 19, 2018 I get called out now and then because I am easily misunderstood and because I bullshit a lot. I don't have a problem with being called out. I do have a problem when discussions degrade to making personal attacks. Attack the message, not the messenger. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stosh Posted July 19, 2018 2 hours ago, Marblehead said: I get called out now and then because I am easily misunderstood and because I bullshit a lot. I don't have a problem with being called out. I do have a problem when discussions degrade to making personal attacks. Attack the message, not the messenger. A Good plan ,, unless you do it much , and you find out the messengers almost always take it personally. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rene Posted July 19, 2018 This thread is still going?? LOL Have fun - I'm off swimming with the porpoises. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Earl Grey Posted July 19, 2018 4 minutes ago, rene said: Have fun - I'm off swimming with the porpoises. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
