Aura Posted December 7, 2018 hello, i tried to control masterbation for 40 days but on 41th day nightfall happened. i could'nt control myself. i masterbated once n now i feel regret about this. how to transfer this enrgy to the brain. i have lots of question but not able to find the answer. plz help me regards Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fa Xin Posted December 7, 2018 Hello, Aura, and welcome. Your membership is approved and we're happy you found your way to us. We look forward to accompanying you on some of the way that you still have to go. Please take the time to read the post pinned at the top of this Welcome page and take a look at the forum Terms and Rules. This covers all you need to know when getting started. For the first week you will be restricted to ten posts per day but after that you can post as much as you like. Also, until you’ve posted fifteen times in the forums, you’ll be a “Junior Bum” with somewhat restricted access and will be allowed only two private messages per day. Good luck in your pursuits and best wishes to you, Fa Xin and the TDB team Hi Aura, welcome to the forum. I dont practice retention so I don’t really know. I’m sure someone will be along to help. You are welcome to jump right in to the ongoing discussions, revive an older thread, start a new thread of your own, or start a discussion in the "Newcomer Corner" sub-forum to expand on your introduction or ask general questions to help you get started. May you enjoy your time here. Fa Xin Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nintendao Posted December 7, 2018 Welcome, Aura. The fact that you're even paying attention to, and willing to discuss such a concept is a step in a good direction i'd say. Don't beat yourself up over it too much, though. (no pun intended) There are many and varied views shared here on what seems to be a common struggle, especially among energetic youth. Poke around the 'Fuxi' board in the Garden, and hopefully something will resonate for you. A recurring theme to winning is to forget all about retention per se, and focus on transformation. In other words, don't fuss over pulling energy out of where you don't want it, but rather on putting it into other things from the get go. What exactly that means in practice depends on what system suits you; what your motivation and goals for pursing such things, and how far along in any particular paradigm you already may be. Of course having the benefit of an experienced instructor guiding you in person is best. Sometimes if you get stuck it helps to try a different perspective. For example if cooking in dantians and pumping water wheels don't seem to be panning out for you, look into some good old fashioned chakra cleansing and elevating. Also don't discount the power of prayer, whatever that may mean for you. One note of caution i've seen is that you really do not want to transfer sex energy to the brain directly, not at first anyway. It can make you even more crazy! Most important in whatever system you're working is: Don't force anything. Keep watching with intention and let things ripen of their own accord. It's natural to want big results quickly, but you'll be surprised how simply sticking with a seemingly very basic practice will yield really high quality over time. ♥Ninny Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
