Immortal4life Posted October 7 (edited) Things aren’t always as they seem. Many, many guys will exaggerate and lie about their body count. I have no tolerance for that since it will lead other guys astray, they’ll end up taking advice from those liars that doesn’t work and waste their time when they could havee been practicing things that do work and lead to real skills. I’ve heard many times that the average lifetime partner count in the western world is roughly 7. A guy with 50, or 100, or more is actually very rare. Either the guy is a celebrity, or he has made pursuing women a major part of his lifestyle, sacrificing other areas of his life to do it. A guy with a normal life, normal social circle, a job, responsibilities etc. there’s no way his body count is even close to a hundred. Add on top of that a lot of guys are raised to be weaker and less masculine than they used to be. If we look at average loss of virginity age rates nowadays it’s at like pre sexual revolution levels of stunted development, but for the opposite reason than it was back then. I think it is probably true that there are fewer naturals nowadays than back in the 80s and 90s. Think about Marty Mcfly in Back to the Future. He was far, far more socially developed as a man than his father George mcfly was. Back to the future really illustrates how much more developed men were in the 80s than the 50s. This was surely due to the oppressive religious culture and male dominance in society in the 50s. 1989 was truly the pinnacle of social development. If we look nowadays men are falling back to 1950s levels of stunted development, but now instead of being due to an overly male dominated culture it’s due to feminism and female dominated culture. Both male dominated and female dominated cultures are very bad, the 1980s were the perfect balance and produced the most naturally sexually confident men. Edited October 7 by Immortal4life Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thrice Daily Posted October 7 (edited) I get where you’re coming from @Immortal4life. And feel lucky in a way that I made getting to know many women a priority in my 20’s As you say people prioritise in order to be successful with women often at the expense of other areas. Like working and staying in, saving up money for stability eg car, house, and setting up more passive income maybe or business… Pregnancy is obviously a danger when it comes to having sex. And having a child on the way and being ill prepared is not so much fun.. But if you value sexual freedom and freedom in general in your 20’s (and maybe 30’s) it’s a reality people may have to face… like I did. It’s hard to set up your business and provide for a new family plus be there for the little one for all the lifting and carrying , appointments and quality time, all at the same time without savings… especially when the 20 something year olds around you have set themselves up for kids and marriage and don’t seem to have too much of a problem with any of it… but that’s how being human is done, none of us get here without that personal sacrifice of our parents.. anyway maybe having kids isn’t your bag… which brings me to my next point… Life as a player, in your 30’s and 40’s is what exactly… working on your body count is only gonna deprive you of moving to the next level. Meanwhile going grey being arguably less desirable, or at least energetic and unable to be a young parent should that time come. I hear what you are saying about the efforts to blur the lines of gender and all that, and sort of agree with you traditional gender roles peaked in the late 80’s, but I think you’re missing the big picture when it comes to perpetual casual sex and body counts… Parenthood. If you duck out on it good for you, but I think it’s a gamble you might regret taking… Back to casual sex though, I think if you got savings and plenty of money and free time, plus you’re getting a bit older but you keep fit and have loads of energy, given the right environment you could have a great time with casual sex. But what is the eventual goal, outcome, aim or gain??? don’t you wanna level up and move to the next generation, as it were… I only know it from a parents point of view and it’s worlds away from where I was as a singleton. Can’t imagine how Grandparents feel when they see people the same age as them that never had kids. Very strange I’m guessing. but each to their own. Hope my comment doesn’t seem to Judgey. Proud Dad and Father, (of a daughter by the way) Thrice D Edited October 7 by Thrice Daily Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thrice Daily Posted October 7 Oh one other point, careful how many good girls you let slip through your fingers. Universe has got a funny way of teaching us lessons about the good the bad and the ugly if we pass up on too many good opportunities, what do you think might happen. Careful how you treat these girls as well, you might find one day you get a taste of your own medicine. That sounded harsh probably but it’s true. Don’t leave it too long mate. And when you do find a nice young lady and be very thorough when it comes to red flags… listen to your instincts… Good luck Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
