Truth Of Casual Sex

[Immortal4life]

Things aren’t always as they seem. Many, many guys will exaggerate and lie about their body count. I have no tolerance for that since it will lead other guys astray, they’ll end up taking advice from those liars that doesn’t work and waste their time when they could havee been practicing things that do work and lead to real skills.

 

I’ve heard many times that the average lifetime partner count in the western world is roughly 7. A guy with 50, or 100, or more is actually very rare. Either the guy is a celebrity, or he has made pursuing women a major part of his lifestyle, sacrificing other areas of his life to do it. A guy with a normal life, normal social circle, a job, responsibilities etc. there’s no way his body count is even close to a hundred. 
 

Add on top of that a lot of guys are raised to be weaker and less masculine than they used to be. If we look at average loss of virginity age rates nowadays it’s at like pre sexual revolution levels of stunted development, but for the opposite reason than it was back then.

 

I think it is probably true that there are fewer naturals nowadays than back in the 80s and 90s. Think about Marty Mcfly in Back to the Future. He was far, far more socially developed as a man than his father George mcfly was. Back to the future really illustrates how much more developed men were in the 80s than the 50s. This was surely due to the oppressive  religious culture and male dominance in society in the 50s. 1989 was truly the pinnacle of social development. If we look nowadays men are falling back to 1950s levels of stunted development, but now instead of being due to an overly male dominated culture it’s due to feminism and female dominated culture. Both male dominated and female dominated cultures are very bad, the 1980s were the perfect balance and produced the most naturally sexually confident men.

Edited October 7, 2024 by Immortal4life

[Thrice Daily]

I get where you’re coming from @Immortal4life. And feel lucky in a way that I made getting to know many women a priority in my 20’s 

 

As you say people prioritise in order to be successful with women often at the expense of other areas.

 

Like working and staying in, saving up money for stability eg car, house, and setting up more passive income maybe or business…

 

Pregnancy is obviously a danger when it comes to having sex. And having a child on the way and being ill prepared is not so much fun.. But if you value sexual freedom and freedom in general in your 20’s (and maybe 30’s) it’s a reality people may have to face…

 

like I did. It’s hard to set up your business and provide for a new family plus be there for the little one for all the lifting and carrying , appointments and quality time, all at the same time without savings…

 

especially when the 20 something year olds around you have set themselves up for kids and marriage and don’t seem to have too much of a problem with any of it…

 

but that’s how being human is done, none of us get here without that personal sacrifice of our parents..

 

anyway maybe having kids isn’t your bag… which brings me to my next point…

 

Life as a player, in your 30’s and 40’s is what exactly… working on your body count is only gonna deprive you of moving to the next level.

 

Meanwhile going grey being arguably less desirable, or at least energetic and unable to be a young parent should that time come.

 

I hear what you are saying about the efforts to blur the lines of gender and all that, and sort of agree with you traditional gender roles peaked in the late 80’s, but I think you’re missing the big picture when it comes to perpetual casual sex and body counts…
 

Parenthood. If you duck out on it good for you, but I think it’s a gamble you might regret taking… 

 

Back to casual sex though, I think if you got savings and plenty of money and free time, plus you’re getting a bit older but you keep fit and have loads of energy, given the right environment you could have a great time with casual sex.

 

But what is the eventual goal, outcome, aim or gain??? 
 

don’t you wanna level up and move to the next generation, as it were… 

 

I only know it from a parents point of view and it’s worlds away from where I was as a singleton. 
 

Can’t imagine how Grandparents feel when they see people the same age as them that never had kids. Very strange I’m guessing.

 

but each to their own. Hope my comment doesn’t seem to Judgey.

 

Proud Dad and Father, (of a daughter by the way)

 

Thrice D

 

Edited October 7, 2024 by Thrice Daily

[Thrice Daily]

Oh one other point, careful how many good girls you let slip through your fingers.

 

Universe has got a funny way of teaching us lessons about the good the bad and the ugly 

 

if we pass up on too many good opportunities, what do you think might happen.

 

Careful how you treat these girls as well, you might find one day you get a taste of your own medicine.

 

That sounded harsh probably but it’s true. Don’t leave it too long mate. And when you do find a nice young lady and be very thorough when it comes to red flags…

 

listen to your instincts… Good luck

[johndoe2012]

Sex usually creates cords between the two but casual sex is probably not so bad that way. 

 

For long term couples we start feeling the other's thoughts and feelings and we can start being affected by the darkness in their system. 

 

If I would do casual sex I would clear any entanglement, cords and attachment to the other after the act to remain as pure as possible. 

[Lairg]

9 hours ago, johndoe2012 said:

Sex usually creates cords between the two but casual sex is probably not so bad that way. 

 

Once  a woman came to me complaining of possession.   She knew exactly when the possessing entity took hold of her.   It was during casual sex

 

 Such entities often spawn during human sex.   Hence one of the few contagious crimes is child abuse

 

 

 

 

Edited Saturday at 09:23 PM by Lairg

[johndoe2012]

54 minutes ago, Lairg said:

 

Once  a woman came to me complaining of possession.   She knew exactly when the possessing entity took hold of her.   It was during casual sex

 

 Such entities often spawn during human sex.   Hence one of the few contagious crimes is child abuse

 

 

 

 

 

So only have sex with someone who is clean one way or the other. 

[Lairg]

1 hour ago, johndoe2012 said:

So only have sex with someone who is clean one way or the other

 

Hopefully clean in all ways.

 

Still there are always bigger pictures.

 

I met a woman that had been my wife perhaps 20 000 years ago.  We got on well and had unprotected sex during her period.

 

As we were doing that, the words came into my head:  This is for dynastic reasons!

 

And she became pregnant despite the menses bleeding.

 

I returned to own country and she had an abortion.

 

She was aware that the soul moved into one of her female relatives who had a son not long after.

 

My "wife" occasionally wrote to me about "our son".  

 

When he was in his teens, he got into drugs and died in his 20s.

 

It looks like the dynastic reasons were not fulfilled.

 

 

 

[Tommy]

1 hour ago, Lairg said:

I met a woman ....   We got on well and had unprotected sex during her period.

And she became pregnant despite the menses bleeding.

I returned to own country and she had an abortion.

 

From what I had learned from my High School biology classes, it seems impossible to me to become pregnant while the lining of the uterus is being shed. Of course, I could be wrong. But, can I ask (you don't have to answer), did she ask for money for the abortion?

 

Sorry, just skeptical after some of the women I have met in my youth.

 

 

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OP said, "I'd like to discuss the topic of casual sex and get to the absolute truth of it. Is this type of sexual behavior truly right for the soul. "

As in anything else one does in life, how does one know whether something is right or wrong? There is what society tells one what is right and wrong. And there is what one believes to be right or wrong. Do they match or go contrary? 

 

So, is this behavior truly right for the soul? Probably not but we all must learn the lessons along the way. Is it right for people to have to suffer in order to search for the path to liberation?? I say no but it is how it is.

Edited Sunday at 12:53 AM by Tommy

[Lairg]

52 minutes ago, Tommy said:

it seems impossible to me to become pregnant while the lining of the uterus is being shed. Of course, I could be wrong. But, can I ask (you don't have to answer), did she ask for money for the abortion?

 

My friend was very surprised at the pregnancy.  Said it had never happened during bleeding.

 

I offered her a modest regular payment for upkeep of the child - but she chose termination as for her to have a child unmarried would reduce her social ranking.   Recall the words about dynastic reasons while she was being impregnated

 

52 minutes ago, Tommy said:

how does one know whether something is right or wrong?

 

Ask your heart.

 

The heart, in a standard human who is not too contaminated, anchors profound Light.

 

That Light provides life force to the human and carries relevant aspects of the Intent of The Source of All.

 

52 minutes ago, Tommy said:

Is it right for people to have to suffer in order to search for the path to liberation

 

Suffering is like being thrown in the deep end of the pool.   The process accelerates acquiring competency.   Those that fail get reincarnated for another go. 

 

There is an urgency in training Earth humans for their cosmic tasks.   

 

Liberation is only from Earth training.   Real-time learning continues beyond this cluster of universes

 

Currently 53 nations have signed the ethical standards for managing this solar system.  Earth humans are approaching their cosmic responsibilities. 

https://www.nasa.gov/artemis-accords/

 

To be responsible is to be response-able.  Much training and development are required.

 

 

Edited Sunday at 01:26 AM by Lairg

[silent thunder]

So. Many. Stories.

[Cobie]

 

 

On 16/02/2025 at 2:18 AM, Lairg said:

… To be responsible is to be response-able. …

 Oh  that’s what I always say.

[Lairg]

9 hours ago, silent thunder said:

So. Many. Stories.

 

When I was young I tested stories against my existing beliefs.

 

These days I prefer to test stories by experiment.

 

 

 

[silent thunder]

3 hours ago, Lairg said:

 

When I was young I tested stories against my existing beliefs.

 

These days I prefer to test stories by experiment.