English-Speaking Western Women Are Most Likely To Be UnEnlightened Women

[thelerner]

I wonder if he read a thread by a woman who thought all Asian men were possessed by Left Hand Porn demons and the only good men were Mexicans who looked like roided out body builders.  If he'd read that and think, 'Yes!, that woman thinks just like me.' 

[Earl Grey]

2 hours ago, thelerner said:

I wonder if he read a thread by a woman who thought all Asian men were possessed by Left Hand Porn demons and the only good men were Mexicans who looked like roided out body builders.  If he'd read that and think, 'Yes!, that woman thinks just like me.' 

 

 

[Nungali]

3 hours ago, Zorro Dantes said:

So wise guy...how does one determine how spiritual ones genetic make up is huh?

 

 

I support more spiritual make up

 

 

         

[Heartbreak]

4 hours ago, thelerner said:

I guess not all.  You said 2 woman in the US meet your standard, but most of the rest have 'LHP demonic negative entities hiding in the Mafia controlled Porn industries', which to me is on the wacky side.  Malarky sold to hard up kids to explain and justify why they can't get into a solid relationship.  It also keeps them from getting into a solid relationship, thinking woman have demonic negative  entity inside, when in fact they're just into you.

 

See above, of the 180 million woman in the States 2 pass your test, the other 180 million are mostly possessed by demons controlled by the mafia Porn industry.  While you may not eat your words, hopefully reading them back give you a sour taste in your mouth, because that's a belief that's going to hurt your life, imo. 

 

I don't think any woman on this site would be masochistic enough to want a relationship with you.  Perhaps they would talk to you and explain another world view, where you're not surrounded by demon woman. 

 

Hopefully as you grow older, you won't stick to your guns.  As years or decade go by, you'll drop it, see woman as what they are, other humans with same problems and hopes as you.  Not demons.  You'll find one you like, one who's not 'enlightened' but perhaps interested in some path of cultivation.  You'll have a good relationship and laugh at your old wacky ideas.

I have always said that there are rare exceptions to English-Speaking Western Women being most likely to be UnEnlightened women with the key words being “likely” and “exceptions”.

 

What that being said I try to have compassion karuna for their sufferings especially during my meditations.

 

However if you want me to spend time and energies fantasising about English-Speaking Western Women, that would be the last thing on my mind. 

Edited March 26, 2020 by Heartbreak

[thelerner]

17 minutes ago, Heartbreak said:

I have always said that there are rare exceptions to English-Speaking Western Women being most likely to be UnEnlightened women with the key words being “likely” and “exceptions”.

 

What that being said I try to have compassion karuna for their sufferings especially during my meditations.

 

However if you want me to spend time and energies fantasising about English-Speaking Western Women, that would be the last thing on my mind. 

Compassion is always good.  It not about fantasizing about the ESWW's, as not demonizing woman in the first place.  Which you tend to write about alot. 

 

Its a big world, you may want to focus on other aspects of cultivation, here. 

[Heartbreak]

I apologise to all women in this forum if you think I am racist or sexist.

 

Maybe I should have soften my approach.

 

But I know for sure that the elite men the rich men in this world are using women to control the rest of the men in this world through sex.

 

This is why I am extremely militant about these issues.

[Earl Grey]

2 minutes ago, Heartbreak said:

I apologise to all women in this forum if you think I am racist or sexist.

 

 

This is not an apology. The wording is insincere. 

 

When you say it that way, it sounds like you're using an apology as an insult. 

 

By using that phrasing, you have said "It's your fault that you think I'm a racist or sexist" and there is no personal responsibility or acknowledgment of any wrongdoing. In other words, you're telling people that they can't think properly and there's nothing wrong with your actions. 

 

The most humble person will detach themselves from their actions and focus on how the others feel. 

 

You have made others uncomfortable with your sexist and racist posts. They are racist and sexist, and I'm not the only one who has pointed it out (all of them). You may not agree, but unfortunately, this is how we see it. 

 

Here is how to do a sincere apology, but you must truly be sincere and believe it:

 

"I am sorry for posting racist and sexist things on this forum". 

 

You apologize for the action.

 

Now, if you really want to improve, you have before asked for feedback, but the problem is, when people explain it, all you do is justify it and rationalize it stubbornly, so as Walker pointed out--you get exactly what you've received from people being frustrated with you. 

 

Start by reading this: 

 

https://www.cracked.com/blog/6-types-apologies-that-arent-apologies-at-all/

 

https://www.cracked.com/blog/the-5-most-obnoxious-ways-people-screw-up-apologies/ 

[Heartbreak]

49 minutes ago, Earl Grey said:

 

This is not an apology. The wording is insincere. 

 

When you say it that way, it sounds like you're using an apology as an insult. 

 

By using that phrasing, you have said "It's your fault that you think I'm a racist or sexist" and there is no personal responsibility or acknowledgment of any wrongdoing. In other words, you're telling people that they can't think properly and there's nothing wrong with your actions. 

 

The most humble person will detach themselves from their actions and focus on how the others feel. 

 

You have made others uncomfortable with your sexist and racist posts. They are racist and sexist, and I'm not the only one who has pointed it out (all of them). You may not agree, but unfortunately, this is how we see it. 

 

Here is how to do a sincere apology, but you must truly be sincere and believe it:

 

"I am sorry for posting racist and sexist things on this forum". 

 

You apologize for the action.

 

Now, if you really want to improve, you have before asked for feedback, but the problem is, when people explain it, all you do is justify it and rationalize it stubbornly, so as Walker pointed out--you get exactly what you've received from people being frustrated with you. 

 

Start by reading this: 

 

https://www.cracked.com/blog/6-types-apologies-that-arent-apologies-at-all/

 

https://www.cracked.com/blog/the-5-most-obnoxious-ways-people-screw-up-apologies/ 

Earl Grey I do hope you are not a English Speaking Western Woman in disguise?

 

As a man, why do you sound more pissed off at my posts than women in here?

 

A white knight trying to save women Sir Earl Grey is?

 

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=White Knight Syndrome&amp=true&defid=1469469

 

White Knight Syndrome

n. A personality characteristic found in most males that lead them to: 
1. rush to the aid of any female they see who appears in any form of distress. 
2. Become attracted to said damsel in distress. 
3. Follow the dying code of chivalry and generally act like a nice guy. 

Also called young man's disease. 

"Nice guys finish last?" Tony asked. "So does that make White Knight Syndrome bad?"

[Heartbreak]

[Earl Grey]

9 minutes ago, Heartbreak said:

Earl Grey I do hope you are not a English Speaking Western Woman in disguise?

 

As a man, why do you sound more pissed off at my posts than women in here?

 

A white knight trying to save women Sir Earl Grey is?

 

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=White Knight Syndrome&amp=true&defid=1469469

 

White Knight Syndrome

n. A personality characteristic found in most males that lead them to: 
1. rush to the aid of any female they see who appears in any form of distress. 
2. Become attracted to said damsel in distress. 
3. Follow the dying code of chivalry and generally act like a nice guy. 

Also called young man's disease. 

"Nice guys finish last?" Tony asked. "So does that make White Knight Syndrome bad?"

 

6 minutes ago, Heartbreak said:

This response is why people insult you here. 🙄

 

Gendering me for my response that was trying to help, then accusing me of being a white knight. 🤪
 

You don’t know sincerity at all if this is how you think. You will remain in your sorry state forever. 😈

[Andy_W]

Heartbreak you gotta be a joker or a windup merchant...love to see you share some of your  rhetoric with some of my white female friends face to face... it does come off as racist and sexist and has nothing to do with Taoist discussion...

[Zorro Dantes]

Heart break like I said you gotta come realer than that...I could probably snag the girl of YOUR dreams and sweep her off her feet...and in the physical world you'd probably hate one for that...you'd probably hate on a fella just talking to whom you'd perceived as the girl of your dreams. Broken hearts ARE for assholes...because ONLY YOU can break your own heart...nobody wants to be in possession of that kind of responsibility/burden from some weird ass guy... especially goddesses in the human realm...so ram that false sense of tender understanding  pseudo intellectually up  your poop chute and lighten up...

Edited March 27, 2020 by Zorro Dantes

[Heartbreak]

5 hours ago, Andy_W said:

Heartbreak you gotta be a joker or a windup merchant...love to see you share some of your  rhetoric with some of my white female friends face to face... it does come off as racist and sexist and has nothing to do with Taoist discussion...

If your white female friends are true spiritually enlightened human beings, I would love to share my so-called rhetoric with them and even discuss how non-racist and non-sexist my posts truly are.

[Heartbreak]

33 minutes ago, Zorro Dantes said:

Heart break like I said you gotta come realer than that...I could probably snag the girl of YOUR dreams and sweep her off her feet...and in the physical world you'd probably hate one for that...you'd probably hate on a fella just talking to whom you'd perceived as the girl of your dreams. Broken hearts ARE for assholes...because ONLY YOU can break your own heart...nobody wants to be in possession of that kind of responsibility/burden from some weird ass guy... especially goddesses in the human realm...so ram that false sense of tender understanding  pseudo intellectually up  your poop chute and lighten up...

Yes I am very sure you are better looking and more mentally emotionally evolved than me.

 

Maybe you can try snagging the Asian gals of my dreams off their feet. 
 

As a true spiritual practitioner, it won’t be in my best interests if a guy better than me snag the Asian gals of my dreams.

That would be called jealous cockblocking.

 

I would pray for your mutual enlightenment and mutual happiness.

[ilumairen]

8 hours ago, Heartbreak said:

I apologise to all women in this forum if you think I am racist or sexist.

 

Maybe I should have soften my approach.

 

I think you're confused, and honestly could care less who you find sexually attractive.

 

8 hours ago, Heartbreak said:

But I know for sure that the elite men the rich men in this world are using women to control the rest of the men in this world through sex.

 

 

 

We aren't tools.

 

 

[ilumairen]

 

8 hours ago, Heartbreak said:

As a man, why do you sound more pissed off at my posts than women in here?

 

Because the women here largely just ignore your posts.

 

I only see what others quote, and am beginning to agree with the sentiment others shared here regarding quoting and responding to you. So, take care and best wishes. Ta ta.

 

[Andy_W]

39 minutes ago, Heartbreak said:

If your white female friends are true spiritually enlightened human beings, I would love to share my so-called rhetoric with them and even discuss how non-racist and non-sexist my posts truly are.

definitely a joker you are...

[Nungali]

16 hours ago, Heartbreak said:

 

 

Baby Heartbreak ;   "  Whaaaat  ?  !    You mean my penis will ever only get this big ? "

 

[Nungali]

16 hours ago, Earl Grey said:

 

This response is why people insult you here. 🙄

 

Gendering me for my response that was trying to help, then accusing me of being a white knight. 🤪
 

You don’t know sincerity at all if this is how you think. You will remain in your sorry state forever. 😈

 

Have you been " generally acting like a nice guy '  .....  again !  

 

( probably helping women in trouble too !    Pffft ! ) 

[Nungali]

13 hours ago, Andy_W said:

Heartbreak you gotta be a joker or a windup merchant...love to see you share some of your  rhetoric with some of my white female friends face to face... it does come off as racist and sexist and has nothing to do with Taoist discussion...

 

I'd buy a ticket for that !

 

Edited March 28, 2020 by Nungali

[Nungali]

8 hours ago, Heartbreak said:

If your white female friends are true spiritually enlightened human beings, I would love to share my so-called rhetoric with them and even discuss how non-racist and non-sexist my posts truly are.

 

May be have a chat with them about denial too ?