blackandgold8 Posted May 7, 2020 Hi there, if truth be told I only joined so I could ask one question. I doubt I’ll use this site much. My girlfriend of ten years died a month back and being only 28 I’m kind of at a loss on where to go in life.. well, kind of. I know it’s time to take the meditations and what-not seriously since everything else I did I did with her. And I loved doing nothing with her. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Welcomer Posted May 19, 2020 I'm very sorry for your loss. This site is as much about connecting with others as cultivation. Look to Manitou and Illumaren, I've found there PPD's great sources of comfort. Welcome to the Tao Bums. A wonderful forum to learn, discuss and cultivate. Below are 3 important sections: Our Rules, The Insult Policy and our 3 Foundations. Before you join give them a read. Most of it boils down to being respectful. No name calling or trolling. Post as if your mom's looking over your shoulder. Discussion and arguments are what the board is about. Keep it civil, don't get personal. Don't be a troll or one issue zealot. We're here for good conversation and make some friend along the way, to be a community. Jump right in, start threads asking questions, look for interesting threads and post your (relevant) thoughts. For the first week you will be restricted to ten posts per day but after that you can post as much as you like. Also, until you’ve posted fifteen times in the forums, you’ll be a “Junior Bum” with somewhat restricted access and will be allowed only two private messages per day. Good luck in your pursuits and best wishes to you, Michael and the TDB team Read and review Our Rules: Our Insult Policy- Read it, Live it TheDaoBums' Three Foundations: Eclectic, Egalitarian, Civil. Again, welcome. Hope you find something useful here. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
