zxcvbs Posted June 4, 2020 Reading materials from various parts about sexual alchemy. I always hear about the importance of not having sex with mentally unbalanced people. Promiscuity is a current form of relationship, people only think about establishing a bond after having sex. We can see the trending use of fast dating platforms like happn, tinder, grindr, etc. What is the way to protect oneself from the energy pollution of others' energies? Specially thinking about the root chakras, anal sex, etc. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apech Posted June 4, 2020 Don't have sex with random mentally imbalanced people. 2 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zxcvbs Posted June 4, 2020 5 minutes ago, Apech said: Don't have sex with random mentally imbalanced people. why, because the can be trublesome? how do you if they are mentally ill, if you just chatted a few words virtually Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apech Posted June 4, 2020 1 minute ago, zxcvbs said: why, because the can be trublesome? how do you if they are mentally ill, if you just chatted a few words virtually Do you have sex with people without speaking to them then? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zxcvbs Posted June 4, 2020 Just now, Apech said: Do you have sex with people without speaking to them then? dating apps function like that, you know people only superficially, you could have a mask in front of you. i know dealing with that kind of people could be dangerous, but what happens in an energetic level, if you only date them 1, 2 times. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apech Posted June 4, 2020 13 minutes ago, zxcvbs said: dating apps function like that, you know people only superficially, you could have a mask in front of you. i know dealing with that kind of people could be dangerous, but what happens in an energetic level, if you only date them 1, 2 times. I wouldn't presume to tell you what to do, its up to you - but if you are cultivating in any system that I am aware of this doesn't sound like a particularly good idea (on any level). 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ilumairen Posted June 4, 2020 If one is concerned about the psychological state of potential partners, then perhaps taking the time to get to know potential partners and ascertain said psychological state before dropping one's pants would be in order. 1 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
senseless virtue Posted June 4, 2020 4 minutes ago, ilumairen said: before dropping one's pants would be in order Welcome to men's world: First drop pants, then ascertain if it was alright to proceed. 1 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miroku Posted June 4, 2020 2 hours ago, virtue said: Welcome to men's world: First drop pants, then ascertain if it was alright to proceed. One of my friends actually pulled out the "naked man" on one of his dates. She laughed and then they did it all night long. Sometimes ... it works. Didn't work for me tho. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miroku Posted June 4, 2020 Well speaking from experience, to avoid pollution during anal sex being clean is of utmost importance. Concerning energies, I dunno. Not a big believer in most of things that is said about them. It often leads to people acting like brahmins and being too concerned with purity and ritual purity and other silly things. If the practice lineage wants it, then sure. If you want to be promiscuous then be, but be careful and try to be a good partner. If you want to be spiritually pure, then be ready to give up stuff, especially afflictive emotions. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted June 4, 2020 3 hours ago, Apech said: Don't have sex with random mentally imbalanced people. An ex GF , some time back ; " ALL your girl friends have mental problems .... All of them ! " Me; < stands there smirking > XGF ; " Well, except me of course ! But all the others ..... " 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted June 4, 2020 3 hours ago, zxcvbs said: dating apps function like that, you know people only superficially, you could have a mask in front of you. i know dealing with that kind of people could be dangerous, but what happens in an energetic level, if you only date them 1, 2 times. Then dont have anything to do with 'dating apps' . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted June 4, 2020 22 minutes ago, Miroku said: One of my friends actually pulled out the "naked man" on one of his dates. She laughed and then they did it all night long. Sometimes ... it works. Didn't work for me tho. Whaaaat ? You mean you actually ...... Oooooh dear ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miroku Posted June 4, 2020 3 minutes ago, Nungali said: Whaaaat ? You mean you actually ...... Oooooh dear ! Yup, people do stupid things when young and drunk. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
liminal_luke Posted June 4, 2020 On 4/6/2020 at 11:51 AM, Apech said: Don't have sex with random mentally imbalanced people. I´ll have to cut back on masturbation. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted June 4, 2020 (edited) 6 minutes ago, liminal_luke said: I´ll have to cut back on masturbation. Okay, this is the second time in this thread I have had to rub my eyes and read again ..... You masturbate random, mentally imbalanced people ? Do you think it helps them ? , Edited June 4, 2020 by Nungali 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted June 4, 2020 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Miroku said: Yup, people do stupid things when young and drunk. Oh .... okay , thank goodness you where drunk ! . Edited June 4, 2020 by Nungali Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miroku Posted June 4, 2020 1 hour ago, Nungali said: Oh .... okay , thank goodness you where drunk ! . Okay to put things into context, while the situation was awkward and stupid it wasn't an assault. The dude could have easy beaten me up, it happened during a game of strip poker and after two weeks or so we well got to "know" each other. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ralis Posted June 4, 2020 6 hours ago, Apech said: Do you have sex with people without speaking to them then? Erica Yong described that quite well in "Fear of Flying" and she termed it the "zipless fuck." Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thelerner Posted June 4, 2020 6 hours ago, Apech said: Don't have sex with random mentally imbalanced people. I've tried to avoid that by only having sex with specific mentally imbalanced ones. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qofq Posted June 4, 2020 Who'd'a thunk it. Having sex is a very intimate thing. No matter how you cut it. Pun intended. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ilumairen Posted June 5, 2020 3 hours ago, Nungali said: Then dont have anything to do with 'dating apps' . Or maybe don’t use them in that way - which would actually serve to help one stand out in the crowd. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeform Posted June 5, 2020 First look to the 'purity' of your own intentions. Oftentimes we get concerned about the purity of others - when in fact it could be me that's the mentally imbalanced - or 'impure' one. Are you having sex to establish intimacy and connection? Is it a natural expression of your love for the partner? Or are you just trying to act out something you've seen in porn - and you don't really care who's on the receiving end? 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apech Posted June 5, 2020 (edited) 15 hours ago, Nungali said: Okay, this is the second time in this thread I have had to rub my eyes and read again ..... You masturbate random, mentally imbalanced people ? Do you think it helps them ? , ! Edited June 5, 2020 by Apech Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted June 5, 2020 (edited) 20 hours ago, ilumairen said: Or maybe don’t use them in that way - which would actually serve to help one stand out in the crowd. Nah . I have never used them in any way . Actually I have never used any app . and never had any interaction with women over the internet except talking on forums and email. Once, on Tarot forum some woman in USA tried to start ..... something up with me ( see I cant even say relationship ... I do not get 'electronic relationships ' . I was being friendly ; where do you live , whats it like there m whats your house and environment like . I just find that stuff interesting . What did they used to call it ? ...... 'pen pals' . Then she is all " Send me a picture ... ley's skype ... and 'other stuff' .. Teh she sends me a picture of her and her dog at a lake and "What do you think ? " Me; " Nice lake , where is that ? What sort of dog is it ? " " No , What do you think of me ." " Huh ?" " OMG ! I sent you a picture of me in a bikini and I want to know what you think ! " Oh yeah , look she is at the lake in a bikini .... " Okay, looks like you need a good meal .... a bit skinny ." Then followed screaming abuse and 6 months trouble and reporting me for anything on Tarot form . ...... so I had to destroy it Edited June 5, 2020 by Nungali 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
