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Differences between dualism and non-dualism

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  On 6/17/2022 at 6:09 PM, liminal_luke said:

 

I also tried Jeff's system but prefer brunettes.

I opted out of that entire add-on feature. I think fine print detail was that it was entirely optional, and completely unnecessary. 

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  On 6/17/2022 at 7:10 PM, dwai said:

I opted out of that entire add-on feature. I think fine print detail was that it was entirely optional, and completely unnecessary. 

 

You're right, of course.  I opted out as well --- or, to be more exact, that feature was never offered to me.  Whatever the merits or demerits of his system, I always thought Jeff treated me with kindness and respect.

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  On 6/17/2022 at 7:14 PM, liminal_luke said:

 

You're right, of course.  I opted out as well --- or, to be more exact, that feature was never offered to me.  Whatever the merits or demerits of his system, I always thought Jeff treated me with kindness and respect.

I agree. That was my experience as well. In fact I’ve never seen him be rude or unkind to anyone in a public forum, nor criticize anyone in 1:1 interactions I’ve had with him. Moreover, Jeff and I have publicly debated and disagreed (without an iota of acrimony may I add) on many things, both before I started to work with him as well as after. 

At the same time, I don’t dismiss anyone else’s (unpleasant) experiences as a result of working with him. These things are subjective after all. 

 

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  On 6/17/2022 at 1:03 PM, steve said:

 

Everything comes and goes relative to fashion, such is the nature of fashion. That has nothing to do with the value of kundalini, just reflective of the fickle, unsatisfied mind. Most spiritual seekers flirt with many methods, never sticking with something long enough to find their truth. If they do find the right door and manage to pass through, the method no longer matters so much.

 

 

I think this is right on, Steve.  I became K-active maybe 30 years ago, and have been ever since.  Fickle mind and needy ego made it Quite a Thing to me for some time.  Now?  Eh.  Just bothersome tingling.

 

It occurs to me that dual or non-dual can also be equated to knowing or being.  Seems to happen gradually, the metamorphosis from knowing to being.

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  On 6/17/2022 at 1:03 PM, steve said:

 

Everything comes and goes relative to fashion, such is the nature of fashion. That has nothing to do with the value of kundalini, just reflective of the fickle, unsatisfied mind. Most spiritual seekers flirt with many methods, never sticking with something long enough to find their truth. If they do find the right door and manage to pass through, the method no longer matters so much.


“Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the way that leads to life, and only a few find it.”

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  On 6/17/2022 at 5:50 PM, dwai said:

so you want to have your cake and eat it too. We knew that already ;) 

I wish people who gravitate towards yogic practices would spend sufficient time reading Patanjali’s yoga sutras. All misconceptions about “siddhis” will disappear if there is respect for the tradition. The  third section of the YS is called the “vibhuti pada” and covers the topic of siddhis. I’m sharing a specific chapter from a commentary on the YS by swami krishnananda below 

 

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I refer once again to my dream of the vine and the structure, the trunk of the vine and the post are indistinguishable from each other and yet have to be pulled apart, your author chooses yoga, I choose my method, and I have seen that my method will work for me, and the job will be done properly and once and for all. The only way I could make a mistake is by rushing to the outcome before finishing the initial work. 
 

edit to clarify: “The ego is a chameleon which takes any colour, any shape, according to the atmosphere in which it lives. It knows its tricks very well, much more than all the understanding can work. It is a chameleon in the sense that it can assume the colour of the atmosphere in which it lives, so that we cannot detect it or discover it. It is one with the atmosphere, so how will we discover it? It has taken the same shape, colour and value of the conditions under which it is living, so it cannot be attacked.”

 

This is the trunk and the post, indistinguishable from each other. What I know is that the ego can also take on the cloak of nonduality, it assumes the colour of the atmosphere in which it lives… so that we cannot detect or discover it… What better place to hide? 

 

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  On 6/17/2022 at 7:10 PM, dwai said:

I opted out of that entire add-on feature. I think fine print detail was that it was entirely optional, and completely unnecessary. 


If a whole house is built on this ‘feature’, can it really be called an add-on? It just wasn’t declared, so you never noticed. 

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  On 6/17/2022 at 7:48 PM, manitou said:

 

 

I think this is right on, Steve.  I became K-active maybe 30 years ago, and have been ever since.  Fickle mind and needy ego made it Quite a Thing to me for some time.  Now?  Eh.  Just bothersome tingling.

 

 

And fickle mind and needy ego have been vanquished since? 

 

  53 minutes ago, manitou said:

 

It occurs to me that dual or non-dual can also be equated to knowing or being.  Seems to happen gradually, the metamorphosis from knowing to being.

 

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I always liked the following two saying that are used in military intelligence yet can also be used in various spiritual teachings.

"The need (or not the need) to know" and the WWII one of, "loose lips sink ships".  (with an implied combination of both)

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  On 6/17/2022 at 8:40 PM, Bindi said:


If a whole house is built on this ‘feature’, can it really be called an add-on? It just wasn’t declared, so you never noticed. 

 We’ve put the “Jeff issue” to rest a long time ago on this forum. Best to not animate ghosts of the past. 
 

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  On 6/17/2022 at 5:50 PM, dwai said:

 

I wish people who gravitate towards yogic practices would spend sufficient time reading Patanjali’s yoga sutras. All misconceptions about “siddhis” will disappear if there is respect for the tradition. The  third section of the YS is called the “vibhuti pada” and covers the topic of siddhis. I’m sharing a specific chapter from a commentary on the YS by swami krishnananda below 

 


dwai, I began skipping large parts of that tract because it was so repetitious--didn't you find it to be so?  

Swami Krishnananda calls out the senses as an obstacle:

 

There is the form of the object, called the rupa in Sanskrit, and there is the essentiality of the subject, called the svarupa. The svarupa is the quintessential form, the basic essence of the ‘self’, and the rupa is the form of the object. The rupa always manages to keep itself away from the svarupa of the meditating consciousness. We always perceive the object; we never unite ourselves with the object. Such a thing has not been done because the senses, working together with the mind, act as a screen. They sift all processes of perception and take only the impressions of perception, sensation, etc., but will not allow the unity of the substantiality of the subject with the object because if that could be achieved, there would be no function for the senses.
 

 

He seems to attribute action to the senses, saying that they "working together with the mind" as a screen, taking "only the impressions of perception, sensation, etc.".  

 

Gautama described his experience of a "cessation of (volition in) feeling and perceiving".  He said "the disturbance" of the six senses continues, even without any volition or habitual tendency in feeling and perceiving them. 

 

The swami notes that the senses "take only the impressions of perception, sensation, etc., but will not allow the unity of the substantiality of the subject with the object"--as though some action must be taken to counter what the senses are doing. 

I'm going with the cessation of action, and a reliance on the fundamental wellness of the senses and the mind.



 

 

 

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  On 6/17/2022 at 10:37 PM, Mark Foote said:


dwai, I began skipping large parts of that tract because it was so repetitious--didn't you find it to be so?  

Swami Krishnananda calls out the senses as an obstacle:

 

There is the form of the object, called the rupa in Sanskrit, and there is the essentiality of the subject, called the svarupa. The svarupa is the quintessential form, the basic essence of the ‘self’, and the rupa is the form of the object. The rupa always manages to keep itself away from the svarupa of the meditating consciousness. We always perceive the object; we never unite ourselves with the object. Such a thing has not been done because the senses, working together with the mind, act as a screen. They sift all processes of perception and take only the impressions of perception, sensation, etc., but will not allow the unity of the substantiality of the subject with the object because if that could be achieved, there would be no function for the senses.
 

 

He seems to attribute action to the senses, saying that they "working together with the mind" as a screen, taking "only the impressions of perception, sensation, etc.".  

 

Gautama described his experience of a "cessation of (volition in) feeling and perceiving".  He said "the disturbance" of the six senses continues, even without any volition or habitual tendency in feeling and perceiving them. 

 

The swami notes that the senses "take only the impressions of perception, sensation, etc., but will not allow the unity of the substantiality of the subject with the object"--as though some action must be taken to counter what the senses are doing. 

I'm going with the cessation of action, and a reliance on the fundamental wellness of the senses and the mind.



 

 

 

He’s referring to the subject-object duality that gets reinforced with focus on an “object” as I understand it. The reflected consciousness (the mind) includes the ego which applies labels and identities. So the seer who experiences, the doer who does, applies the separation of “subject and object”, “doer and doing”,  and so on. This is what is being referred to here. 

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overlap included,  an excerpt which could help with the dual and non-dual quandary:

 

"....Later on, with the development of the concept of Brahman  (the supreme cosmic spirit which is regarded to be eternal, genderless, omnipotentomniscient, and omnipresent) in the Upanishads panentheistic notions became more frequent among Hindu thinkers. Although it is commonly described as subsuming all being, Brahman is also described as the embodiment of non-being as well. While such a description is more than somewhat nebulous, it could be interpreted to mean that Brahman also transcends the physical universe and represents a realm inconceivable to humanity beyond the physical realm of "being."  Thus, interpreted in this fashion, the conception of Brahman becomes decidedly panentheistic. Even the deeply personal view of divinity propounded in the Bhagavad Gita the most popular religious text in Hinduism, contains elements of panentheism. In the Bhagavad Gita personal and loving elements of God are unraveled for the reader as the divine Lord Krishna pilots young warrior Arjuna's chariot into battle.  Panentheism seems evident within this formulation of God as well, in various lines of the poem such as Krishna's delineation of his immense heavenly prowess: "With a single fragment of Myself I pervade and support this entire universe."  This seems to suggest that God (Krishna) contains the universe in which he is currently present and more, a definite variation of panentheism.

It is safe to say that Hinduism in general, while being panentheistic as is clear from above, has a pantheistic overlapping between the world and some part of the divine."

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  On 6/17/2022 at 8:30 PM, Bindi said:

 

This is the trunk and the post, indistinguishable from each other. What I know is that the ego can also take on the cloak of nonduality, it assumes the colour of the atmosphere in which it lives… so that we cannot detect or discover it… What better place to hide? 

 

 

In the same way one could say the ego festers in duality. It does not even bother to be subtle. 

Which explains why the general consensus among those who find affinity with spiritual matters will notice that the majority of folks, wandering in the illusion of duality, have very gross egos. In some ways, this is actually a good thing. Understanding their ways and interactions are less convoluted. It is where mountains are mountains. Where it gets slippery is the phase where mountains are no longer seen as mountains. This is where a lot of potential conflicts within spiritual circles catch fire, making interactions difficult. Because people have begun to see more, and each individual mountain, previously relatable with everyone else's, have begun to take on different hues, dimensions and possibilities. The catch being that such discoveries are very personal, individualistic, and often subjective. This is the phase where the polishing of the view (or diamond) is the most frantic, and therefore, prone to more frequent debates and misunderstandings. 

 

Peaceful, transcendent coexistence and mutual understanding returns when mountains are once again seen as mountains. However, the noticeable difference here, compared to phase one, is unmistakeable authenticity of interactions, and how silence is no longer awkward. 

 

 

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  On 6/17/2022 at 8:30 PM, Bindi said:

“The ego is a chameleon which takes any colour, any shape, according to the atmosphere in which it lives. It knows its tricks very well, much more than all the understanding can work. It is a chameleon in the sense that it can assume the colour of the atmosphere in which it lives, so that we cannot detect it or discover it. It is one with the atmosphere, so how will we discover it? It has taken the same shape, colour and value of the conditions under which it is living, so it cannot be attacked.”

 

This is why the ego is not utilized or sought in dzogchen. We can always simply look to the thought and it cannot maintain itself. There is no need to attack, simply rest and open and trust the process. It takes some practice to do this with precision and consistency but it can be very effective. I do not recommend it, however.

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  On 6/18/2022 at 11:19 AM, steve said:

 

This is why the ego is not utilized or sought in dzogchen. We can always simply look to the thought and it cannot maintain itself. There is no need to attack, simply rest and open and trust the process. It takes some practice to do this with precision and consistency but it can be very effective. I do not recommend it, however.

 

You do not recommend it???

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perhaps what was meant and the way I took Steve's last post was if one does not have a solid fall back position or dharmic default then shit can happen if floating upon the wind without such...

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"Defilements are great wisdom,

supportive for the yogis like a forest for fire."

   -  Maitripa

 

"Connate mind-itself is the dharmakaya as such.

Connate appearances are the dharmakaya's light.

Connate concepts are the dharmakaya's waves.

Connate inseparability is the dharmakaya's actuality."

 - Gampopa

 

"Concepts, which arise as if they were something concrete,

take them firmly to be the dharmakaya.

That is meditation; only then one understands.

When this becomes an experience, the nature of mind is seen."

- Gampopa

 

 

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  On 6/18/2022 at 12:14 PM, Apech said:

 

You do not recommend it???

 

Generally not. If someone is drawn to it or has a karmic connection and is seeking it out, no recommendation is needed and you really couldn’t keep them away if you tried. That was the case with me. If someone is interested and curious and asks my opinion, I highly recommend it. If someone does not feel a connection or is overtly opposed, as is the case with some here, I would not recommend it. They need to follow the path that draws them. I feel strongly that different people are suited to different paths and all paths can be judged only in relation to who is following it, what they need and how it is working for them. 

 

One of the things I find lacking in this discussion is the disclaimer that everything we say applies to ourself and our practice and may or may not apply to anyone else… I automatically assume this but by many reactions here I doubt we all feel that way.

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  On 6/18/2022 at 12:33 PM, Apech said:

"Defilements are great wisdom,

supportive for the yogis like a forest for fire."

   -  Maitripa

 

"Connate mind-itself is the dharmakaya as such.

Connate appearances are the dharmakaya's light.

Connate concepts are the dharmakaya's waves.

Connate inseparability is the dharmakaya's actuality."

 - Gampopa

 

"Concepts, which arise as if they were something concrete,

take them firmly to be the dharmakaya.

That is meditation; only then one understands.

When this becomes an experience, the nature of mind is seen."

- Gampopa

 

 

I just read this morning a post about Garchen Rinpoche’s experience in a Chinese prison - torture, hard labor… His ability to take this as his path and not just survive but thrive is mind boggling.

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  On 6/18/2022 at 12:33 PM, Apech said:

 

Connate inseparability is the dharmakaya's actuality."

 - Gampopa

 

 

 

Bears repeating. Thank you.

 

Not to be confused/conflated with the concept of oneness. 

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  On 6/17/2022 at 8:43 PM, Bindi said:

 

And fickle mind and needy ego have been vanquished since? 

 

 

 

 

That's the trick,  that's the practice, that's the goal.  I'm not sure it ever ends.  But there comes a point in time where the nuts and bolts of any particular path are no longer important.  It doesn't matter what path was taken to get there.  Once the mind, the fickle thoughts, have been tamed, yes, there is vanquishment.  Not 100% of the time, but enough awareness to pull them back to the place of Om when you see that you're letting your thoughts take you for a ride.  This can be done many times a day, if needed.  And it's fresh every time!

 

Needy ego is also vanquished in degrees.  Arrogance, assuredness, a sense of superiority - these things can be lessened if one earnestly works on diminishing them.  This is why it hurts to admit mistakes or to make an apology - because ego takes a beating.  But that is the very thing that ego needs - to take a beating.  Ego confirms wrongfully our sense of separateness from each other.  So does arrogance, so does head knowledge - they give the illusion of separateness.

 

 

 

 

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  On 6/18/2022 at 3:29 PM, manitou said:

 

 

That's the trick,  that's the practice, that's the goal.  I'm not sure it ever ends.  But there comes a point in time where the nuts and bolts of any particular path are no longer important.  It doesn't matter what path was taken to get there.  Once the mind, the fickle thoughts, have been tamed, yes, there is vanquishment.  Not 100% of the time, but enough awareness to pull them back to the place of Om when you see that you're letting your thoughts take you for a ride.  This can be done many times a day, if needed.  And it's fresh every time!

 

Needy ego is also vanquished in degrees.  Arrogance, assuredness, a sense of superiority - these things can be lessened if one earnestly works on diminishing them.  This is why it hurts to admit mistakes or to make an apology - because ego takes a beating.  But that is the very thing that ego needs - to take a beating.  Ego confirms wrongfully our sense of separateness from each other.  So does arrogance, so does head knowledge - they give the illusion of separateness.

 

 

 

 

 

Emphasis bolded by me.

The entire post deserves consideration, but I chose to place emphasis on key insights or path notes of a well traveled individual!

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  On 6/18/2022 at 12:35 PM, steve said:

 

Generally not. If someone is drawn to it or has a karmic connection and is seeking it out, no recommendation is needed and you really couldn’t keep them away if you tried. That was the case with me. If someone is interested and curious and asks my opinion, I highly recommend it. If someone does not feel a connection or is overtly opposed, as is the case with some here, I would not recommend it. They need to follow the path that draws them. I feel strongly that different people are suited to different paths and all paths can be judged only in relation to who is following it, what they need and how it is working for them. 

 

One of the things I find lacking in this discussion is the disclaimer that everything we say applies to ourself and our practice and may or may not apply to anyone else… I automatically assume this but by many reactions here I doubt we all feel that way.

 

i can relate to that for ever since I was a little kid I could swim very well and enjoyed being in the water,  so now and then I found it kind of strange when I saw someone afraid of getting into a pool because they could not even dog-paddle and would sink, or were unable to go above their knees at an ocean beach,  thus I was assuming everyone had at least the most basic water skills but it is not so.  

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  On 6/18/2022 at 3:49 PM, old3bob said:

 

i can relate to that for ever since I was a little kid I could swim very well and enjoyed being in the water,  so now and then I found it kind of strange when I saw someone afraid of getting into a pool because they could not even dog-paddle and would sink, or were unable to go above their knees at an ocean beach,  thus I was assuming everyone had at least the most basic water skills but it is not so.  

 

Been there done that as well...

What do they say about assumptions?

Something about making them makes the one making them an ass, and yes I have the t shirt !

 

Now a days my mantra is thought before action when ever possible....

Must I truly react or might I consider a response?

An old not so bold commercial pilot strongly suggested when it looks like you are going into the weeds, It is time wind your watch!

 

But then once when i tried to land a 1940 something Piper Cub A tail wheel front to back two seater on the grass at a large airport, between two active runways, the crosswind caught me off guard. And in a matter of seconds the plane was aimed at the hardest possible odject parallel to the runway. I was awoken out of my fear and stupor by a shout to quit winding your watch and fly the f......... plane to  a complete stop. LOL

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