Dirk47 Posted June 19 Hi, I'm here because of Keep it up Johnson's recommendation in his book on Tantra Love Satisfies. This forum doesn't appear to be specifically about non-ejaculatory orgasms and Tantra. Is there a Tantra section? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
liminal_luke Posted June 19 Hi Dirk47, I don´t think there´s a particular tantra section but if you want to post about non-ejaculatory orgasms and other topics related to Men´s sexuality, that would go in the Mens section of the Gender Gardens. I think sexual topics of interest to both men and women could go in the Grotto. My own sense of the board is that most long-term Bums aren´t especially interested in tantra in the popular sexual sense of the word, but, who knows, perhaps you´ll start an active discussion. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted June 20 3 hours ago, Dirk47 said: Hi, I'm here because of Keep it up Johnson's recommendation in his book on Tantra Love Satisfies. This forum doesn't appear to be specifically about non-ejaculatory orgasms and Tantra. Is there a Tantra section? I dont think you will find a forum like that ..... not sure though ' Non ejac forum. org ' ( the org is short for orgasm, of course ) I will say this here though .... many posts in the past here seem to postulate an ejaculation that happens and is somehow forced not to happen . Dont do that ! You will be much better off to cultivate an orgasm that doesnt involve ejaculation in the first place .... instead of invoking it and then suppressing it . Good luck ... most guys seem to think ; org = ejac To suggest otherwise in general company I got a from the men and from the woman .... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Neirong Posted June 20 9 hours ago, Dirk47 said: Hi, I'm here because of Keep it up Johnson's recommendation in his book on Tantra Love Satisfies. This forum doesn't appear to be specifically about non-ejaculatory orgasms and Tantra. Is there a Tantra section? It is a trap. Learning such things from books and forums is a sure way to get internal damage. Tantra has nothing to do with sex; it is just that "Sex" and chasing primitive desires sells well, which is why all kinds of quacks are doing business on it. There is a big gap in audience size between "I want to have sex/pleasure" and "I want to evolve myself/cultivate." Funnily enough, if you choose the second variant in life, you won't ever be bothered by the first option. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dirk47 Posted June 20 10 hours ago, Neirong said: It is a trap. Learning such things from books and forums is a sure way to get internal damage. Tantra has nothing to do with sex; it is just that "Sex" and chasing primitive desires sells well, which is why all kinds of quacks are doing business on it. The book hammers home the point that Tantra isn't solely about sex, it's about energy. Face facts, ...men get hard-ons, that's why YOU are here...because your dad got hard-ons. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Maddie Posted June 20 2 minutes ago, Dirk47 said: The book hammers home the point that Tantra isn't solely about sex, it's about energy. Face facts, ...men get hard-ons, that's why YOU are here...because your dad got hard-ons. Yes! in fact very little of tantra is about sex, but most westerners don't realize this. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
liminal_luke Posted June 20 @Dirk47 Can´t say I didn´t warn ya! The whole subject of what might be called "sacred sexuality" isn´t very popular in this forum. Doesn´t mean it´s not worth exploring though. Although not an expert (at least not according to my exes), I believe there´s a lot of good that can come from eroto-spiritual questing. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dirk47 Posted June 21 (edited) My question was, I haven't ejaculated for about a month, I don't particularly want to either. However the male sex-cycle is apparently 23 days so i guess if I don't soon, a nocturnal emission is due, which is a drag. Edited June 21 by Dirk47 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dirk47 Posted June 22 On 6/20/2024 at 1:48 AM, Nungali said: I dont think you will find a forum like that ..... not sure though ' Non ejac forum. org ' ( the org is short for orgasm, of course ) I will say this here though .... many posts in the past here seem to postulate an ejaculation that happens and is somehow forced not to happen . Dont do that ! You will be much better off to cultivate an orgasm that doesnt involve ejaculation in the first place .... instead of invoking it and then suppressing it . .... You're not talking to an ignoramus in these matters. Prostate -muscle strengthening/squeezing to induce dry-orgasm is for beginners only. An ignorant fucker has to start somewhere and that's it. The book (not that I'm here to tout it) explains all that, in fact a great deal of it is for beginners who have no clue about lasting longer during sex. That's the start point. He who manages to do that should then aim to just use awareness of energy and Chakras to induce dry-orgasms instead. That's the next level. Sexual lust is to be avoided. Lust is as trash or poison that wants to come out of the genitals. Tantra means 'to weave'...preferably for two lovers to weave in and out of each other's energy centres during love...sending energy upwards and outwards....i..e making love...i..e sex....i.e. love.... but what's the title of the book? That's the central theme. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted June 23 Tantra (n.) , from Sanskrit tantram, literally "loom, warp," hence, figuratively, "groundwork, system, doctrine," as some say; 'text' . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forestofclarity Posted June 23 IIRC, a lot of it traces back to modern Western sources like Barbara Keesling. Mantak Chia repackaged it as Daoist, others repackaged it as Shaiva Tantra. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
