Is porn bad for you?

[Sir Darius the Clairvoyent]

I have a sense it is. And the forum seems to agree. Not that I lay around a lot, but how about frequent one night stands? Mastrubation?

[Sahaja]

Habit forming aspect of it burns through Jing as it can be very addictive. Can think of it like anything that has a strong attraction that has the potential to compromises one’s will (alcohol, drugs, greed, power, obsessions,  etc) It’s not just because of the sexual part. Soon as it hooks you to look your will has been affected and you’re burning Jing. Then soon  as sexual desire is stimulated more Jing is burned. Most of the damage is actually already done before climax is reached. 

 

Also sort of connects you karmically to what is happening to the people on the screen in terms of their potential abuse by their handlers. 

[Maddie]

3 hours ago, Sir Darius the Clairvoyent said:

I have a sense it is. And the forum seems to agree. Not that I lay around a lot, but how about frequent one night stands? Mastrubation?

 

Define bad. In what sense do you mean is it bad for you? As in it can be addictive? 

[Lukks]

Pornography = Bad

Masturbation = Depends..

 

We are the first generation to have access to pornography in a large scale. Internet has brought access to it in a ridiculous easy way, you just need to click a button and well.. there you are.

 

Think about our grandparents, how many naked women have they seen in their entire life? I'm 26 and I probably already saw more naked women than my whole family tree LMAO

 

The thing is, we are the first generation to be truly affected by pornography, and all of the studies on this subject are recent, but one thing that has been shown is that porn acts just like cocaine addiction in your brain.

 

Not only that but if you stop and think about it, pornography isn't as easy to let go as cocaine, because well, youcan get rid of cocaine by not buying more cocaine, but how do you free yourself from pornography?

 

You probably need your notebook to work, you probably need your phone for social interactions, and these are the same things we use to access porn, unless you live inside a cave, you can't get rid of these things...

 

So recently there are rehabilitation clinics(I think this is the correct name) for porn addiction recovery. 

 

Just like the "normal drugs",  a lot of people need to isolate themselves so they can stop, because it's so hard. You don't need to pay for it. You don't need to leave your house to have it. It's ridiculously easy.

 

So yes, pornography is bad, avoid it as much as you can, it will f*** your brain in every way possible.

 

About masturbation, it's totally natural, everyone does it so there's no problem in that, just don't masturbate so frequently or it will be bad for your health, so it can be good or bad, depends on the frequency.

 

About frequent one night stands, I think it's fine too since you're having sex with someone and exchanging energy, so you are not depleting youself. Actually you can deplete your energy having sex, but it's harder, in the other hand(pun intended) masturbation will 100% deplete you everytime.

 

 

Edited Thursday at 06:36 PM by Lukks

[Apech]

22 minutes ago, Maddie said:

 

Define bad. In what sense do you mean is it bad for you? As in it can be addictive? 

I think he means energetically harmful - which it is.  

[Maddie]

2 hours ago, Apech said:

I think he means energetically harmful - which it is.  

 

How so? Being that I'm asexual I'm curious about this.

[ralis]

2 hours ago, Apech said:

I think he means energetically harmful - which it is.  

 

In what way? Define energetically. What authority deemed it harmful?

[ChiDragon]

On 12/19/2024 at 9:55 AM, Sahaja said:

Habit forming aspect of it burns through Jing as it can be very addictive. Can think of it like anything that has a strong attraction that has the potential to compromises one’s will (alcohol, drugs, greed, power, obsessions,  etc) It’s not just because of the sexual part. Soon as it hooks you to look your will has been affected and you’re burning Jing. Then soon  as sexual desire is stimulated more Jing is burned. Most of the damage is actually already done before climax is reached. 

 

Also sort of connects you karmically to what is happening to the people on the screen in terms of their potential abuse by their handlers. 

It will burn up the three treasures: Jing Chi Shen,  精氣神. It will weaken your mind and your physical body. You will lose your will power and your physical strength. It is a worse thing that can do to a teenager without guidance. 

PS We had many people came to TDB asking for help with this kind of problem. 

Edited Friday at 09:14 PM by ChiDragon

[ChiDragon]

7 hours ago, Sir Darius the Clairvoyent said:

not that I lay around a lot, but how about frequent one night stands? Mastrubation?

Yes, the key word is frequent. The question is how often has one done this. Too often is habit forming. That is where the problem lies.

Edited Thursday at 09:58 PM by ChiDragon

[ralis]

3 minutes ago, ChiDragon said:

It will burn up the three treasures: Jing Chi Shen,  精氣神. It will weaken your mind and your physical body. You will lose your will power and your physical strength. It is a worse thing the can do to a teenager without guidance. 

 

Puritanical sexual suppression leads nowhere except to more emotional suppression. 

[ralis]

6 minutes ago, ChiDragon said:

Yes, the key word is frequent. The question is how often has one done this. Too often is habit forming. That is where the problem lies.

 

Define too often and frequent.

Edited Thursday at 10:04 PM by ralis

[Apech]

24 minutes ago, ralis said:

 

In what way? Define energetically. What authority deemed it harmful?

 

 

I was stating my opinion, Ralis, not quoting any authority.  You are free to disagree.

[ChiDragon]

11 minutes ago, ralis said:

 

Define too often.  

More than twice a day is too often.  That will be weaken one's soul and body. There was a male teacher came here for help to understand the effect of masturbation. We had met in a park. We shook hands, he felt my Taiji handshake, he was so weak and almost cannot resist my hand grip.

Edited Thursday at 10:12 PM by ChiDragon

[Apech]

43 minutes ago, Maddie said:

 

How so? Being that I'm asexual I'm curious about this.

 

As I said to ralis I was only stating my view.

 

Of course many things are harmful energetically, drinking alcohol for instance, but people still do them.  Also some forms of pornography involve exploitation of women in particular and so on.  Which, I think, can create harmful energetic presence even for the viewer.  Feel free to disagree.

 

 

[ChiDragon]

17 minutes ago, ralis said:

Puritanical sexual suppression leads nowhere except to more emotional suppression. 

As you said!

 

16 minutes ago, ralis said:

 

Define too often and frequent.

Do it but not too often is good for you.

 

Edited Thursday at 10:17 PM by ChiDragon

[Maddie]

1 hour ago, Apech said:

 

As I said to ralis I was only stating my view.

 

Of course many things are harmful energetically, drinking alcohol for instance, but people still do them.  Also some forms of pornography involve exploitation of women in particular and so on.  Which, I think, can create harmful energetic presence even for the viewer.  Feel free to disagree.

 

 

 

That's definitely messed up and wrong no doubt, but I was curious about the energetic aspect. 

[ChiDragon]

36 minutes ago, Maddie said:

I was curious about the energetic aspect. 

Isn't weaken the body is the energetic aspect about it? 

[Maddie]

Just now, ChiDragon said:

Isn't weaken the body is the energetic aspect about it? 

 

Is it? how so?

[ChiDragon]

21 minutes ago, Maddie said:

 

Is it? how so?

In traditional terms: it burns up your three treasures: Jing, Chi ,Shen.

In modern terms:  One will over work the reproductive system. If the reproductive system is constantly reproducing the sperms, then it will use up most the energy and not much more left for the other organs to function properly. It also weaken the immune system that will make a person become very weak. It affects the pituitary gland.
 

• Follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH): FSH stimulates sperm production in people assigned male at birth. FSH stimulates the ovaries to produce estrogen and plays a role in egg development in people assigned female at birth. This is known as a gonadotrophic hormone.

Please read more about the pituitary gland ere
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/21459-pituitary-gland

Edited Friday at 12:51 AM by ChiDragon

[Sir Darius the Clairvoyent]

Haven’t read trough all, but speaking of experience, you don’t exactly feel proud afterwords.

 

please don’t get to caught up in technicalities and sematics.

[ralis]

2 hours ago, ChiDragon said:

In traditional terms: it burns up your three treasures: Jing, Chi ,Shen.

In modern terms:  One will over work the reproductive system. If the reproductive system is constantly reproducing the sperms, then it will use up most the energy and not much more left for the other organs to function properly. It also weaken the immune system that will make a person become very weak. It affects the pituitary gland.
 

• Follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH): FSH stimulates sperm production in people assigned male at birth. FSH stimulates the ovaries to produce estrogen and plays a role in egg development in people assigned female at birth. This is known as a gonadotrophic hormone.

Please read more about the pituitary gland ere
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/21459-pituitary-gland

 

Assigned at birth? Sex is determined at conception which is a biological fact. 

 

Reducing biological energetics to a few ancient terms misses the point of the real force of nature. It’s beyond the physical and includes the physical. 

 

 

[Nungali]

6 hours ago, ralis said:

 

Define too often and frequent.

 

Well , if smoke starts arising from down there   .....

[Nungali]

6 hours ago, ChiDragon said:

More than twice a day is too often.  That will be weaken one's soul and body. There was a male teacher came here for help to understand the effect of masturbation. We had met in a park.

 

Eh ?   So how did this  come about ?    Guy tells you he needs help to understand the effects of masturbation ..... and you agree to meet him in a park ?  !  ?   ! 

 

6 hours ago, ChiDragon said:

 

We shook hands, he felt my Taiji handshake, he was so weak and almost cannot resist my hand grip.

 

 Ehhh   !?

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Nungali]

2 hours ago, Sir Darius the Clairvoyent said:

Haven’t read trough all, but speaking of experience, you don’t exactly feel proud afterwords.

 

please don’t get to caught up in technicalities and sematics.

 

Indeed ,   If I was going to get caught up in semantics I would respond that ...

 

'But doesnt one feel 'proud' before one does it ? '  How long one feels proud afterwards , IMO , would be a gauge of how strong the jing was .

 

 

[ralis]

In terms of energetics this is worth considering. 

 

 

https://www.abovethenormnews.com/2024/12/20/time-is-not-real-physicist-julian-barbours-research-shows-we-live-in-a-frozen-universe/