Is porn bad for you?

[Maddie]

7 minutes ago, Apech said:

Happens a lot to me - maybe I should stop sleeping with insects.

 

It's hard to resist a lady bug slumber party though 

[Nungali]

3 hours ago, stirling said:

Porn in and of itself isn't bad, it is attachment or aversion to it.  "Misusing sex" as it is often put in the Buddhist precepts means that you have used sex in a way that will generate karma for yourself and others. It is manipulation, using power over another, becoming attached to certain stimuli, acts, or situations, etc. Where there is equanimity there is no karma generated. 

 

I would have thought having procreative sex  would 'generate more karma'   for yourself and others ,  than any other type .

[Nungali]

3 hours ago, ChiDragon said:

Since he posted here, and we live in the same area. I thought we meet in person to talk is better. I told him not to it as often and practice Taiji to regain his heath back to normal. I hope that was ok! 😀

 

Yes, that sounds much better ! 

 

It seems there is a lot of concern and embarrassment about masturbation .  It also seems to be  a part of the normal human 'past times'  and many people do it .  I mean, I dont  but I have heard its very common .

 

But since I want to have '  full incarnation' and experience all facets of life, I decided to give it a go  so I consulted a friend of mine who explained to me how to do it , so I followed his instruction step by step .

 

I opened the Playboy magazine to the centrefold and started rubbing . Yes, I could feel some stimulation there .... and it was growing .  The energy built up and just when I thought it was about to go somewhere ..... I felt a hand clamp down on my shoulder .

 

It was the newsagent and he said  " Are you going to buy that magazine or not !  " 

[Nungali]

2 hours ago, ChiDragon said:

One will not feel proud before. If the Jing was strong, then one would feel proud afterward of doing it. However, if one does it too often, the Jing becomes weaken. Since the damage has done to one's heath, to regain one's heath is good to practice any form of qigong. Taji is the best form of qigong. Most people didn't know that deep breathing is the key factor in qigng.

 

Please note that without deep breathing, one may practiced many years of qigong still not gain any heath benefit from it.

 

It was  just one of my bad jokes

 

Spoiler

proud

To have an erection. ie. Standing tall and proud

 

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Proud

 

[ChiDragon]

23 hours ago, Sir Darius the Clairvoyent said:

 

please don’t get to caught up in technicalities and sematics.

For being with a scientific oriented mind, it is hard to follow this advice. IMO All definitions, facts, and theories should be followed in order for things to be fallen into place. Everything should be cleared in one's mind with no doubt to reach a conclusion. 
 

IMO To practice an art, one must know what the goal is. How to go about it? What are the intermediate stages during the practice. Know what to expect when the highest realm of the art has been reached. 

Edited 15 hours ago by ChiDragon

[old3bob]

yes

[Cobie]

yes

 

[ralis]

Let’s just stop all sex and within a hundred years or so planet earth can breathe a sigh of relief when all humans have vanished. 😂😂

[Sir Darius the Clairvoyent]

5 hours ago, Nungali said:

 

Yes, that sounds much better ! 

 

It seems there is a lot of concern and embarrassment about masturbation .  It also seems to be  a part of the normal human 'past times'  and many people do it .  I mean, I dont  but I have heard its very common .

 

But since I want to have '  full incarnation' and experience all facets of life, I decided to give it a go  so I consulted a friend of mine who explained to me how to do it , so I followed his instruction step by step .

 

I opened the Playboy magazine to the centrefold and started rubbing . Yes, I could feel some stimulation there .... and it was growing .  The energy built up and just when I thought it was about to go somewhere ..... I felt a hand clamp down on my shoulder .

 

It was the newsagent and he said  " Are you going to buy that magazine or not !  " 

I remember my first time. It was when computers were relatively rare. One day I got to borrow one from school home. It’s battery depleted in the middle of the video.

 

Also, like half the class used to go together weekly, for years, at what we called a wank party. Good god haha. 

[johndoe2012]

There are movies with real, unsimulared sex which I find interesting. They are uncensored, have a story and are more female friendly so you can watch it together if you are a couple and want some inspiration. 

 

Nothing wrong with that I find. 

 

I like the expression from 'Training in compassion' by Norman Fischer, 

 

Quote

Don't be a phony

 

Which is letting the facade disappear, being right and spiritual disappears also and life takes over.