Never Letting Go

[River]

New person here. Wondering if anyone has experienced a healer or a teacher never letting go of their student or patient. Thanks

[stirling]

Welcome to the forum, and best of luck with your question.

 

[Cobie]

Welcome to the forum. 

 

1 hour ago, River said:

… if anyone has experienced a healer or a teacher never letting go of their student or patient. …

 

Hmm … I’m wondering, did you have a negative experience? 
 

 

 

Edited December 26, 2024 by Cobie

[Maddie]

On 12/26/2024 at 1:46 PM, River said:

New person here. Wondering if anyone has experienced a healer or a teacher never letting go of their student or patient. Thanks

 

I had an ex like this

[Nungali]

On 29/12/2024 at 7:12 AM, Maddie said:

 

I had an ex like this

 

 

You  had and ex that never let go  ?  Still ?

 

Or did something  'happen' to them ?  

 

[Nungali]

On 27/12/2024 at 6:46 AM, River said:

New person here. Wondering if anyone has experienced a healer or a teacher never letting go of their student or patient. Thanks

 

 

I had  a  'teacher'   that  had a lot of issues about that .

 

Bottom line  is  .... tough titties   ... my decision , you handle it    ... or keep going around acting like an idiot and accusing me of stupid and impossible things .

 

Its obvious that such a teacher wasnt a good teacher in the first place .   However such teachers can hold some knowledge or value  in some areas .  Its a tricky path to walk down , you have to continually  be stable in your own position while negotiating their 'ego', shortcomings   and   lack of development .

 

I managed it for years until I just got  tired and bored with their  .... 'lack of a broader vision ' , and a whole lot more other faults .   Of course, they cant comprehend what happened and are looking for all sorts of stupid reasons , all sorts- except their own lacking .

 

His wife even told him exactly why as she observed his BS  (and has been dealing with it for years, somehow  )  ... but with this person ; 'in one ear and out the other' if its slightly uncomfortable with them .

[River]

On 12/26/2024 at 2:28 PM, Cobie said:

Welcome to the forum. 

 

 

Hmm … I’m wondering, did you have a negative experience? 
 

 

 

Hi Cobie, thank you. Yes I have, but I think it’s best to move this to Systems and Teachers

[River]

On 12/28/2024 at 1:12 PM, Maddie said:

 

I had an ex like this

What made them leave eventually?

[River]

On 12/29/2024 at 2:58 PM, Nungali said:

 

 

I had  a  'teacher'   that  had a lot of issues about that .

 

Bottom line  is  .... tough titties   ... my decision , you handle it    ... or keep going around acting like an idiot and accusing me of stupid and impossible things .

 

Its obvious that such a teacher wasnt a good teacher in the first place .   However such teachers can hold some knowledge or value  in some areas .  Its a tricky path to walk down , you have to continually  be stable in your own position while negotiating their 'ego', shortcomings   and   lack of development .

 

I managed it for years until I just got  tired and bored with their  .... 'lack of a broader vision ' , and a whole lot more other faults .   Of course, they cant comprehend what happened and are looking for all sorts of stupid reasons , all sorts- except their own lacking .

 

His wife even told him exactly why as she observed his BS  (and has been dealing with it for years, somehow  )  ... but with this person ; 'in one ear and out the other' if its slightly uncomfortable with them .

Yes, they don’t seem to be very motivated to change. 

[Maddie]

21 hours ago, River said:

What made them leave eventually?

 

I left lol