心神 ~ Posted yesterday at 12:34 AM 1 minute ago, Cobie said: I really don’t think I am superior to animals. I wasn't suggesting you do. I think we are animals, really. We're not superior to other animals, especially physically. But many believe that we are. We simply have a quality that other animals lack, and they have qualities that maybe we share, but we are deficient in. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
old3bob Posted yesterday at 10:57 AM 14 hours ago, Cobie said: After which, fed up with being lectured, surely she divorced him. On a serious note divorce in Hinduism is something that is not supposed to happen. I'd say that any of us who are "Westerners" can hardly adapt to an ancient tradition of no divorces and many of its other religious/cultural norms, but now adays and for awhile there has been Hindu civil laws which in certain cases allow for divorce. "Vedas and other Dharmic texts do not allow divorce. They strongly oppose it. Hindu marriage is a sacred, unbreakable and never-ending relationship. The relationship does not break even after death. In order to make marriage an unbreakable and stable relationship, fire is lit at the time of विवाह संस्कार. The bride and groom take a vow of devotion towards each other and society by witnessing the fire while orbiting it. It is an old practice in the Hindu society that two persons or two parties who make a vow in front of Agni cannot be dissolved. Witnessing Agni (Fire) is often misinterpreted and is called अग्नि worship. The real purpose of the presence of Agni is to show that the vows are taken with the help of Agni. Agni makes the impact of various substances. New material is contained in the new impact and cannot be easily converted back to their original elements, because Agni has held them in firm bonds. The विवाद संस्कार performed before the अग्नि is a sign of अकाट्यता (Invulnerability) and prohibition of divorce. This will be clear from some mantras of the Atharvaveda..." 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted 22 hours ago (edited) 3 hours ago, old3bob said: ... I'd say that any of us who are "Westerners" can hardly adapt to an ancient tradition of no divorces .. Not all "Westerners". I'm RC, I still don't believe in divorce. Edited 22 hours ago by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dwai Posted 20 hours ago 18 hours ago, Cobie said: mansplaining anachronism Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dwai Posted 19 hours ago 17 hours ago, 心神 ~ said: The Buddha's teachings are similarly so. I believe it was a helpful technique for oral transmission. Honestly, when I read the Suttas, I do mentally skip forward through repetitive bits. I understand why teachings developed in that way, though I don't know that it's exactly the same for the Upanishads. The upanishads were transmitted in verse not prose. All the ancient teachings were transmitted that way - having a specific meter, intonation, etc. Why? Song-format is easier to memorize than prose. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted 19 hours ago (edited) 6 minutes ago, dwai said: anachronism Time will tell. Edited 19 hours ago by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted 19 hours ago (edited) 8 minutes ago, dwai said: ... having a specific meter, intonation, etc. ... The DDJ too was wiritten that way. This is very clear in the oldest available version. In the later versions less so, as they made changes to the text. Edited 19 hours ago by Cobie 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dwai Posted 19 hours ago 3 minutes ago, Cobie said: Time will tell. Actually, it won't It is a logical fallacy to apply modern/current social norms on historical events. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
old3bob Posted 19 hours ago 3 hours ago, Cobie said: Not all "Westerners". I'm RC, I still don't believe in divorce. righto, I'll change that any to a many. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted 14 hours ago (edited) I don’t understand what this means: “It is not for the sake of the husband [etc.] my dear, that he is loved, but for one’s own sake that he is loved. “ Edited 12 hours ago by Cobie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted 11 hours ago On 1/17/2025 at 11:26 AM, 心神 ~ said: Keep in mind, I'm only relaying information I've read. I recently read the Gospel of Judas which led me to looking into additional Gnostic teachings. I've been reading through this lecture archive: https://glorian.org/learn/courses-and-lectures/lecture-archive I especially enjoyed this one about the ego and the animal nature, and this one about meditation. The three brains refers to the mind, the emotion, and the genitalia. Other animals only operate with the emotional brain and the sexual brain, whereas we have both of those in addition to the intellectual brain. Within Buddhism, though there is suffering in the human realm, it is a preferable birth to the hell, animal, and even deva realms. Animals cannot contemplate their nature, and while Devas likely can, they are in a much more comfortable realm that makes it easy to be unconcerned with escaping samsara. So our intellectual brain makes us "superior" to animals, but it is also a place from which our ego expresses itself. Lust of the mind, if you will. So it is a tool that helps us, but also hinders us. As an anthropologist , I must protest ! How can you be sure animals can not contemplate their nature ? I put it in the basket with other supposed differences like ; they do not have a soul , they do not 'self - aware ' , etc . WE cannot be sure . I am more interested in those observable differences we can be sure off, therein lies the differences - and that has been a many years long journey , even things I was taught at Uni are now defunct and as time goes on, we think we have defined that difference (like only man makes tools ) only to find out later that is not so . I do believe I have found that difference though . And it is a difference , not a 'superiority ' . I like your point about many 'brains' though . Exo-psychology has a good model IMO ; we have 8 'mini-brains' . And each is a stage of the development in the individual and is also mirrored in the stages of overall human development , also each is activated by certain drugs , experiences and states of mind (meditations ) . There is also a therapy based on this model as well ; you have a developmental problem in one area , it may manifest also as a specific drug type problem in that area . https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eight-circuit_model_of_consciousness 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted 11 hours ago On 1/17/2025 at 11:31 AM, 心神 ~ said: Yes, I think that is what I'm understanding from Gnostic thought, although the lectures I've been reading incorporate similar teachings of Buddhism, Taoism, Hinduism, Christianity, etc. So I'm not promoting anything as superior, just sharing. But what sort of Gnosticism ? Black or white ? ( Black 'denies' existence ; life and the body is bad and sinful , best spend your time getting back to the pure state we came from . That leads to all sorts of things , like sex is bad as it continues procreation, incarnation and more suffering . The white school affirms life and sees joy as the natural state , or should be ; we chose incarnation for the experience , we should experience it to the full , all its ups and downs , thats why we chose to come here in the first place . There are also other varieties ; yellow school , red school , etc . a bit like types of 'Yoga' , or different 'spiritual philosophies ' . I ascribe to the white school , with a yellow application and a red method - you can interpret the yellow and red as types of Daoism and Tantra . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted 11 hours ago 10 hours ago, Cobie said: Not all "Westerners". I'm RC, I still don't believe in divorce. Well .... dont get married then ! ( You might have to start another type of Christianity ) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nungali Posted 11 hours ago 2 hours ago, Cobie said: I don’t understand what this means: “It is not for the sake of the husband [etc.] my dear, that he is loved, but for one’s own sake that he is loved. “ Well, if you dont love him ..... you will have to 'put up with him' You know how it goes ..... in love ? Nothing he can do is wrong . Weeks later? He is squeezing the toothpaste from the wrong end of the tube , leaving the toilet seat up and has 'developed ' some sort of weird smell . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
心神 ~ Posted 10 hours ago 42 minutes ago, Nungali said: As an anthropologist , I must protest ! How can you be sure animals can not contemplate their nature ? I put it in the basket with other supposed differences like ; they do not have a soul , they do not 'self - aware ' , etc . WE cannot be sure . I am more interested in those observable differences we can be sure off, therein lies the differences - and that has been a many years long journey , even things I was taught at Uni are now defunct and as time goes on, we think we have defined that difference (like only man makes tools ) only to find out later that is not so . I do believe I have found that difference though . And it is a difference , not a 'superiority ' . I like your point about many 'brains' though . Exo-psychology has a good model IMO ; we have 8 'mini-brains' . And each is a stage of the development in the individual and is also mirrored in the stages of overall human development , also each is activated by certain drugs , experiences and states of mind (meditations ) . There is also a therapy based on this model as well ; you have a developmental problem in one area , it may manifest also as a specific drug type problem in that area . https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eight-circuit_model_of_consciousness Protest away! Personally, I am not sure of anything. Just sharing a strand of thought I have recently been introduced to. I also don't believe we are "superior," which is why I included quotations originally, though I think advantage is a better word. The point is that, according to the Buddha (no text at hand, will try to figure out where I read it) we are uniquely advantaged in comparison to animals AND devas (and the devas are not typically considered devoid of intellect). Both exist in conditions that obstruct the ability to reflect on the nature of self, which many teachings indicate is the only means of escaping the cycle of Samara. And whatever advantage we have, we are still less than human until we undergo deep transformation (according to Gnostic thought, as well as in other traditions). I don't know the difference between Black and White Gnosticism, but the cosmology suggests that we are creations of the Demiurge, an imperfect creation of Sophia, herself a lower emanation of the Monad, the Mother-Father Godhead. That were are divine sparks imprisoned in matter and our true home is in the Plemora, far beyond the physical realm. I'm not sure how someone who believes in the cosmology reconciles the origins of the teachings with a positive view of physical life and incarnation, but I'd be interested to learn more in that regard. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Peaceful Hulk Posted 7 hours ago On 1/14/2025 at 5:34 AM, Cadcam said: Though it is a nice idea, and I'm sure God appreciates our love, I don't believe that God must love each of us individually as is often suggested by Christianity. God gave us free will to choose to love, and loving everyone unconditionally leads to problems. No, people have to earn love. God too, has the free will to choose who to love, and can you imagine, with the billions of people born throughout history, and all their virtues, deeds, and talents; how hard it would be to attract God's attention and earn God's love? Wrong on several fronts. You have to realize that Christians see God the same way Daoists see the Dao. God is way too powerful and infinite to not be able to freely give lots of love to all of humanity throughout all history. You are thinking of God here as if he is a powerful human demi-god leader relying on human-made technology to rule over people. No my friend. No. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites