Stigweard Posted February 7, 2009 OK ... EVERY BODY JUST CHILL FOR A SECOND ... please I would kindly ask that ... just for the moment ... the only people to post here are myself and the parties directly involved in the situation. Is that OK? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rookie Posted February 7, 2009 (edited) defer to the sitg Edited February 7, 2009 by rookie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stigweard Posted February 7, 2009 Now lets proceed ... To Gossamer... I am quite aware of the real possibility that Argentum Corvus/David is here because of you, but you can rest assured that no actions of ill intent will be tolerated. To Argentum Corvus... Please be also be assured that at no stage, not even for the minutest of seconds, were any magickal workings intended to be 'against' anyone. My intent is laid bare in Post #111, please review this so that you know precisely where I am coming from. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stigweard Posted February 7, 2009 Now please excuse me for claiming an unrelinquishing hold of the talking stick for a second but I have added my intent into this situation as such I am claiming my share of the responsibility in this. To proceed with productiveness we need to establish a clandestine agreement on some rules of engagement. Firstly I would like all of us to review carefully the Rules for Fair Argument here in Post #4. Please review them twice. On top of this I would add that, just for the moment, no accusations or blame are cast at anyone. I would like each of you, Gossamer, Argentum Corvus, and snakecharmer, to post your agreement that: 1. You are still committed to achieving complete resolution of the problem between you all, and 2. That you will 100% abide by the rules of engagement that I have just outlined. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Argentum Corvus Posted February 7, 2009 Now please excuse me for claiming an unrelinquishing hold of the talking stick for a second but I have added my intent into this situation as such I am claiming my share of the responsibility in this. To proceed with productiveness we need to establish a clandestine agreement on some rules of engagement. Firstly I would like all of us to review carefully the Rules for Fair Argument here in Post #4. Please review them twice. On top of this I would add that, just for the moment, no accusations or blame are cast at anyone. I would like each of you, Gossamer, Argentum Corvus, and snakecharmer, to post your agreement that: 1. You are still committed to achieving complete resolution of the problem between you all, and 2. That you will 100% abide by the rules of engagement that I have just outlined. I have no problem with this, I do have a question. If there is a violation of the rules, will that post be removed and can I ask to have the rule of personal insults applied to the any and all post that have been made in this thread about, toward, or even by myself? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snakecharmer Posted February 7, 2009 Now please excuse me for claiming an unrelinquishing hold of the talking stick for a second but I have added my intent into this situation as such I am claiming my share of the responsibility in this. To proceed with productiveness we need to establish a clandestine agreement on some rules of engagement. Firstly I would like all of us to review carefully the Rules for Fair Argument here in Post #4. Please review them twice. On top of this I would add that, just for the moment, no accusations or blame are cast at anyone. I would like each of you, Gossamer, Argentum Corvus, and snakecharmer, to post your agreement that: 1. You are still committed to achieving complete resolution of the problem between you all, and 2. That you will 100% abide by the rules of engagement that I have just outlined. Stig, I can and will abide by each of the 'rules of engagement' to the best of my abilities. Who's going to play mediator? Snakecharmer Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gossamer Posted February 7, 2009 (edited) David Screeton and his wife (magical name "Kestrel"), are only here to cause trouble. David does NOT believe in free speech, and everyone from Arkansas already KNOWS THIS (and has known it for YEARS). If David or Kestrel calls the shots, I'M DONE COMPLETELY, FOR GOOD. ALL of the hacking and destroying computers MUST BE IN THE EQUATION to solve ANY resolution, or WHY TRY FOR ANY RESOLUTION? Why did he come here and dredge up what happened at another forum unrelated to this one last November? To blacken the case against ME. I mean DUHHHHHHHHHH. You'll please note that he WILL NOT admit as to WHY he was fired from St. Vincent's Infirmary, in Little Rock, Arkansas, where he used to work. He'll play you like a fish on the line, you give this sociopath an inch, and he'll take ten MILES. What he DOESN'T WANT is Mak Tin Si kicking his ass magically. THIS IS THE ONLY REASON that he's REALLY here, hiding behind another woman, just as he has always done..........HOW "objective" can she be in all of this??? If David calls the shots, I'm DONE. If Kestrel calls the shots, I'm DONE. Now, why don't you ask him just WHY he got fired from his job? g. P.S. So, those are my terms. I personally believe that it's completely foolish to trust this man with ANYTHING. Let Mak Tin Si fix the situation, I'm NOT agreeing to anything where people plotted and maneuvered to have me kicked off a forum where I had been since 2001. A forum that David hacked and took off the internet, and then played Paul Younan (the forum owner) as a fool because he (David) wanted ME GONE, and off that list, by his (David's) hand. It's not my fault that Christians are completely stupid as to anything magical. So, I'm NOT trusting David or Kestrel. End of story. Edited February 7, 2009 by gossamer Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stigweard Posted February 7, 2009 To Argentum Corvus, and Snakecharmer... Please be aware that I am not a formal moderator of this forum as such I have no power to delete anybodies posts. I am happy though to guide things in a suggested direction which I firmly believe will achieve true and lasting resolution. A suggestion I have is that, if anyone does violate the agreed upon 'rules of engagement', instead of trying to punish them for such a breach an effort be made to bring any such assertions back within the realm of the said agreement. To Gossamer... As it stands I am 'calling the shots' here just for the moment. We are friends so please have trust in me, I am not asking you to trust Argentum Corvus nor Snakecharmer, I am specifically asking you to trust me. Please also understand that Mak Tin Si's role was never about kicking anyone's ass magically. The intent is to help you with the energy in your sphere, if in the process someone's feathers get scorched as a result of their ill intent directed at you then so be it. But the intent is specifically to help you. It must be said that there is simply no way possible to prove or disprove the actions of anyone involved here. So all we can do is acknowledge that 'something' has gone wrong in the past and examine carefully what can be done now to manifest the resolution we are all aiming for. So under these conditions Gossamer, with me calling the shots, can we have your agreement that: 1. You are still committed to achieving complete resolution of the problem between you all, and 2. That you will 100% abide by the rules of engagement that I have outlined. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mal Posted February 7, 2009 Is that OK? Mmmmm mmmm Mmmm Public discussion board. Take it to PM if you don't want input Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stigweard Posted February 7, 2009 Mmmmm mmmm Mmmm Public discussion board. Take it to PM if you don't want input Cheers Mal I know exactly what you are saying ... thanks for the reality check And you are absolutely right, I just felt the need to make the temporary request to limit the 'static' at a crucial junction. It's all good, I have happily placed the talking stick back on the table Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mal Posted February 7, 2009 Understand and agree with your position. But it's nice to talk again too (as you have probably guessed I love talking ) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stigweard Posted February 7, 2009 Understand and agree with your position. But it's nice to talk again too (as you have probably guessed I love talking ) Cheer Mal ... it is really nice to have both your support and involvement on this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mal Posted February 7, 2009 You are well suited to this challenge my brother. If anyone can help Gossamer Argentum Corvus and Snakecharmer settle their differences, I believe you have the patience and skill for the task. edited to be more inclusive Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stigweard Posted February 7, 2009 You are well suited to this challenge my brother. If anyone can help Gossamer I believe you have the patience for the task. Aww shucks cheers matey. I have the easy part though, the 'real' work will be done by the good folks involved. For the moment I am just that annoying back seat driver ... "Are we there yet?" ... "Mom, I gotta go pee!" *takes deep breath* Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bak Mei Posted February 7, 2009 Wow, I never thought I would log into Taobums and see a soap opera like this unfolding. Better than TV. Welll, good luck to all parties involved. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gossamer Posted February 7, 2009 (edited) I want to first tell a story, this just happened. Wednesday, I went to see my internist, as I believe that you know, I've had TEN operations on my left tibia plateau (where the knee and leg join together). If this gets infected (again) it would be very, VERY bad. OK, onward through the fog.......... Everytime I go to a medical clinic David knows, and he can read the dictation of the folks like my wife (she cannot type on me, as we are married) as he has keylogged her entire section. Keyloggers transmit EVERY KEYSTROKE to a waiting computer to be read. So, I needed a certain order to go from here in Northern Iowa (from my Internist' office), to Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. Which is about 120 miles North of here. Now, you don't have to believe ANYTHING that I believe, but David had the smarts to simply block this very pertinent piece of information from going to the world famous Mayo Clinic (where I had my last two operations). Everybody on both sides of this was astonished that this would NOT go through as it was sent. But I'm not astonished by anything to do with this SOB, as I learned long ago how brilliant he is on a computer. So, we had to get in our car, my wife miss a day of work, and drive a 120 miles to Mayo Clinic's Emergency Room. And hand deliver the order that would NOT go through via computers. On the other hand, we got a day together that was totally unscheduled (I Love spending time with my wife! ), and we got to listen to some great tunes on the car stereo, and on the return journey, the moon was 3 quarters full shining on the snow, illuminating all of the surrounding landscape, it was really beautiful. This was this past Thursday night. But you see, this is what we're dealing with, that even my very private medical results are instantly available to him, he can simply STOP the flow of medical information between one clinic to another, just as easily as he can keep me from writing a review at Amazon.com. This is the kind of stuff that seems totally insane, that sociopaths DO. They also appeal to the people in charge of any given situation, and say "Oh poor me, my "rights" are being violated and trampled upon by gossamer". Immediately, David wants ALL of my insults removed. Fuck him. He's got "control" of our lives to the point of making us drive 120 miles into Minnesota, because he's hacking computers, I have absolutely NO REMORSE over ANY, no not even ONE of his so-called "rights", being lost.. What of MY RIGHT to have a form go to Minnesota unimpeded?? You DON'T believe ANY of this, only because you haven't LIVED IT LIKE WE HAVE. I'll agree that you (Stigwerd) are the man in trying to fix a very messy and near impossible situation. But I'm telling you, the sociopathic personality will "play you" as long as it's in his BEST INTEREST. I've seen this on another forum back in October/November. And this was a forum where he literally hacked it and took it off the internet, in October/November 2007. The forum LOST over 2 and a half YEARS of archives, when this happened, that were totally irreplaceable! But because David had a long term "plan" for Paul Younan (the forum owner), and Paul is so stupid that he knows absolutely NOTHING about magic , and David and his associates used spell work to pull off what they did there. Paul all the while saying "Christians cannot be harmed by evil"..............RIGHT.................keep telling yourself that, as the band on the H.M.S. Titanic plays on. Mal asked the WRONG question. The RIGHT question is: "Have ANY of your magical associates ever cursed Albion or his family members?" But because Mal is a Virtuous man, he expects THE TRUTH to be told to him in return, because he (Mal) is asking for THE TRUTH..........but a sociopath *IS UNABLE TO TELL THE TRUTH* in return , even if he's asked directly. David's "teacher", a former Gardnerian "wiccan", from what I hear, has cursed me, back when I still lived in Arkansas. Ask him WHY HE GOT FIRED, go join the Original Arkansas Witches Yahoo list, as I suggested last night, and THEN LISTEN to what Arkansas pagans are saying about all of his bullshit. Yeah, Stig, I'll go along with this process, but I WON'T believe a word that either Kestrel or David say. If David denies hacking computers and spamming pornography for a living, he's LYING to you, and your stupid to trust him. gossamer To Argentum Corvus, and Snakecharmer... Please be aware that I am not a formal moderator of this forum as such I have no power to delete anybodies posts. I am happy though to guide things in a suggested direction which I firmly believe will achieve true and lasting resolution. A suggestion I have is that, if anyone does violate the agreed upon 'rules of engagement', instead of trying to punish them for such a breach an effort be made to bring any such assertions back within the realm of the said agreement. To Gossamer... As it stands I am 'calling the shots' here just for the moment. We are friends so please have trust in me, I am not asking you to trust Argentum Corvus nor Snakecharmer, I am specifically asking you to trust me. Please also understand that Mak Tin Si's role was never about kicking anyone's ass magically. The intent is to help you with the energy in your sphere, if in the process someone's feathers get scorched as a result of their ill intent directed at you then so be it. But the intent is specifically to help you. It must be said that there is simply no way possible to prove or disprove the actions of anyone involved here. So all we can do is acknowledge that 'something' has gone wrong in the past and examine carefully what can be done now to manifest the resolution we are all aiming for. So under these conditions Gossamer, with me calling the shots, can we have your agreement that: 1. You are still committed to achieving complete resolution of the problem between you all, and 2. That you will 100% abide by the rules of engagement that I have outlined. Edited February 8, 2009 by gossamer Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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Stigweard Posted February 8, 2009 (edited) I will be direct seeing that you are making moves to depart our lovely scene I am not asking you to 'kiss and make up' ... the reality is that, for whatever turn of fate, you have all arrived at our humble home ... my efforts therefore are aimed at keeping this place in some semblance of peace while the real work of Mak Tin Si's service takes place. So please understand that at no stage am I going to ask anyone here to believe the other person's point of view. It is well and truly obvious that that will not take place. As mentioned above, for the moment, dispute management takes precedence over dispute resolution. My simple request is this ... if any of you, Gossamer, Argentum Corvus, or Snakecharmer, insist on making comment about your involvement with each other then I ask you to follow the guidelines I have suggested. Simple and easy. Edited February 8, 2009 by Stigweard Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ZenStatic Posted February 8, 2009 I've sat back and patiently held my tongue regarding this whole thing for a long time. My apologies Stig, for not PM'ing you a long time ago and letting you know I would not be sending the $10 I originally decided to. I had gone back and started reading many of gossamers posts again to see if I could get a grasp on the situation at hand. And frankly, it made me feel sick. Because as much of a geek as I am, I should have noticed quite a few things a long time ago. While I won't go so far to say that most of the computer issue you talk about are impossible to cause in the way you say they are, I will say that the probabilities are high in the billions. you obviously have little grasp for many things when it comes to computers, because the things you are saying this man has done, not even the most malicious hackers that spend all their time writing code have managed. While in your head there may very well be something going on, I think that perpetuating the lie to this community is despicable. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rookie Posted February 8, 2009 Gossamer, I hope you take this opportunity to do something different. There is a great deal of support for you here and now. But if you do the same old thing, what can change? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mal Posted February 8, 2009 Hi Albion, Thanks for your kind words. The only thing I would like to add is please stay. I value your posts here. I value YOU. I would dearly love to see a happy ending. Don't discount the healing power of Mak Tin Si's practices. Peace. p.s. there is always the ignore post option, may help too in the short term Even I have used it on people that just continually irk me, until I felt centered enough to handle them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snakecharmer Posted February 8, 2009 Wow, I never thought I would log into Taobums and see a soap opera like this unfolding. Better than TV. Welll, good luck to all parties involved. Never thought that I'd be involved in one when I joined!!!!!!! Thanks for the luck- I appreciate it. Snakecharmer Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Smile Posted February 8, 2009 Albion, take a brake from computers for a while. Relax, read a book, get a hobby. And take care of your mind - it's getting way out of hands. Using computers is not going to help the healing process. Wish you well. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snakecharmer Posted February 8, 2009 I will be direct seeing that you are making moves to depart our lovely scene I am not asking you to 'kiss and make up' ... the reality is that, for whatever turn of fate, you have all arrived at our humble home ... my efforts therefore are aimed at keeping this place in some semblance of peace while the real work of Mak Tin Si's service takes place. So please understand that at no stage am I going to ask anyone here to believe the other person's point of view. It is well and truly obvious that that will not take place. As mentioned above, for the moment, dispute management takes precedence over dispute resolution. My simple request is this ... if any of you, Gossamer, Argentum Corvus, or Snakecharmer, insist on making comment about your involvement with each other then I ask you to follow the guidelines I have suggested. Simple and easy. Dear Stig, Please know that both David and I are still in for the "long haul". I hope that Gossamer will change his mind, stay and work towards the healing that will no doubt benefit all of us. Thank you for your work and patience thus far, Snakecharmer Share this post Link to post Share on other sites